March 31, 2025

The Road to Success is Constantly Under Construction

It’s Motivational Monday on Season 19, Episode 32 of The Adventures of Pipeman. Tune in at 1PM ET on 3/31/25 for the live show on W4CY Radio at www.w4cy.com. Subscribe to The Adventures of Pipeman at...

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Season 19

It’s Motivational Monday on Season 19, Episode 32 of The Adventures of Pipeman.

Tune in at 1PM ET on 3/31/25 for the live show on W4CY Radio at www.w4cy.com.

Subscribe to The Adventures of Pipeman at https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-...

The phrase "the road to success is constantly under construction" is a quote by Lily Tomlin and a metaphor emphasizing that achieving success is a continuous, evolving process, not a static destination, requiring ongoing effort and adaptation.

Here's a breakdown of the meaning:

Metaphorical:
The phrase uses the image of a road under construction to represent the journey towards success, which is not a smooth, finished path but rather one that is constantly being built and improved.

Continuous Process:
It highlights that success is not a one-time achievement but a dynamic process that requires ongoing effort, learning, and adaptation.

No Set Destination:
The "road" is always under construction, meaning there's no final destination or end point. Success is a journey, not a place to arrive at.

Requires Effort:
The metaphor implies that achieving success requires constant work, improvement, and overcoming challenges, just like building a road.

Adaptability:
The "under construction" nature suggests that the path to success may change, and individuals need to be adaptable and willing to adjust their plans and strategies.

Examples:
Businesses that are successful learn from what they do well, and improve upon it as they move forward.

Safety systems are successful using similar techniques of learning and applying.

Safety isn't a 'once and done' thing: it's a system that's an integral part of always improving the business.

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Hi you lunch, that's sure you see Why bring you Young?

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Whyke up of America? It's time for the adventures?

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So Fight Man, I'll go before see why I com

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with Pompeach's number fun internet radio station. Here's your host,

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the Fight Man, y Oh Motivational Monday Man, And I

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gotta tell you the road to success is constantly under construction,

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and as so true on this show because we're actually

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every day this past couple weeks, we're like testing better

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ways because you know, the pipe Man moves around a lot,

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and sometimes the Internet can be crap and that's terrible

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because you know, if I'm in the studio, the Internet's perfect.

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But sometimes when I do it from outside the studio.

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Not so much.

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So we're doing testing every day different ways because the

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road to success of the Adventures of Pipe Man is

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constantly under construction, and that's why we need the pipe nuts.

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That's your cue one.

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I know. I just wanted to make your sweat a

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little bit right.

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If it weren't for Rebel, we could be the men

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in black.

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They do have females.

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Yeah, but that's a new one. We're talking old school.

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Yeah, so you want to be a man in black rebel?

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Rebel is the only one that is.

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Is that true? You were back? Are you wear black? Okay?

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I want to make that was true because you're saying no, Well,

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I'm saying you're you're the only one here in black.

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I said, there's not only men in men in black,

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But but.

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Then are women in black? They're not men in black.

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Exactly, but it's still the men in black movie. So

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it's all good.

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It's women. Okay, So I think, correct me if I'm wrong.

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Black person in black, So.

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Correct me if I'm wrong. But I think it's women

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in black. But the w all in the beginning, it's silent.

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Well, here's what I think. That's a good one. But

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here's what I think.

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Okay, So basically, it's twenty twenty five and they're going

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to do a reboot of that movie and they're going

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to call it People in Black because you don't know,

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it could be fifty eight different genders.

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You know.

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I've actually had to fill out an application where there

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were literally like fifty eight choices for gender.

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So this is going to be a fifty eight shades

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of People in Black.

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So here's a thing. Okay, So.

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I'm talking about the testing and stuff. So we're just

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testing what's going to be best. So far, I'm liking this,

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but now I just gave myself a kind of her.

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And for those of you that don't understand Jewish, that

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means I jinxed myself. That's why most a lot of

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Jews are superstitious, and a lot of them like they'll

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start to say something I'm like, and they'll be like, uh, yeah,

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I'm not gonna say that because he'll give it a

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kin of hur you know. And and it is true

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every time I say stuff I don't know, I don't

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know that. The psychic energy and this one has been

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strong lately. I've been freaking a lot of people out.

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But you know, the road to success is constantly under construction.

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So I want to ask my pipe.

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Nuts here, is that a good thing or a bad thing?

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Well, I'm going to answer that after you guys answered

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the question. But I do have an answer for it. Okay,

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so ask me again, remember rebel, ask me again after it,

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I'll ask you second. So i'll ask one first, your second,

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and then when you're done answer and you're like, hey,

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is that a good thing or a bad thing? Or

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you could do it your way and say, hey, is

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that a good thing or a bad thing? Am I

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do I do that?

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One? Pretty good?

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One?

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One? Do I do it? Pretty good?

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It's close enough. I don't think you can reach the

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level of highness.

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Hello, exactly, No, I just don't think I can reach

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that level of creepiness.

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Okay, so I was trying to be nice.

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We uh here here's the question.

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I have a poster for this too that has all

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these different things on it. It's really cool. I gotta

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find it, but uh, probably it probably got ruined and

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that's probably why I don't know where it is, or

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else it would be up on the wall. But we'll

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ask you one first, Okay.

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So what does that mean to you?

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If I say to you the road to success is

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constantly under construction, what does that mean to you? And

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rebels don't cheat and take notes, you know, and give

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your own answer.

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Okay, So from my perspective, success is answer. Success is

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not the end goal. Success is a milestone because once

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you accomplish what you were set to accomplish, there should

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be a new set of accomplishments that you set out

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to accomplish.

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Did you happen to read my book? Who said life

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doesn't come in owners Manuel? Because that's in there?

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Actually no, but it's close enough to me where I'm

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just channeling.

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It, I think so. But no, it is you are

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like spot on with what you just said. Because listen,

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that's why I do this thing. It's in my book.

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It's called the goal Getter. You know, I've read all

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the goal same books. One of the number one books

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of all time by Napoleon Hill is Think and Grow, Rich.

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Love, Love, Love that book.

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Unfortunately, most people do not follow in the instruction in

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that book because that book has a lot of instructions

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because success is a lot of work. Reaching your goals

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is a lot of work. But people they don't want that.

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That's why we live in this society of big pharma,

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where like I don't want to do to work to

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get healthy. Let me just take some pills and it'll

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be all better, you know, And same with that. So basically, yes,

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there's no time, Like if somebody asks you, is there

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ever a time that you've reached all your goals and

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you have no more goals? If you say yes to that,

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there's something wrong, because that's why the road to you're right,

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that's why to road to success is constantly under construction

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because you're constantly evolving, you're constantly trying to you know,

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be better, You're constantly trying to renew yourself, You're constantly

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trying to add on to the foundation.

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And so basically, yeah, I.

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Mean the goal getter what it is is so in

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Think and Grow Rich, you have all these things you

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have to do, and I've done them all, and it's

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a lot of work. Like you do, you a full

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time job to do your goals. If you really follow

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Think and Grow Rich. But if you follow the goal getter,

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all you have to do is tay, got a piece

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of paper, write down goal getter at the top and

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number one through ten and put the ten things that

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you want most out of life.

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Now.

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Those ten things can be short term, medium term, long term.

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They can be small, they can be big. They can

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be about your personality. They could be about money, they

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could be about your job, a career. They could be

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about something you need to get or want to get,

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or it could be anything you want to be. Okay, So,

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like I remember, when I first started doing this, I

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was like, yeah, I would like to have kids, and

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I was specifica you gotta be specific with your goals, okay,

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because then, like I think a year later, I had

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three of them. So you got to be very specific

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of what you want when you ask for things. But

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that being said, yeah absolutely, you know listen, and what

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I tell people that do is you make that list

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and every time you reach something on that list, you

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take it off and replace it with something else. It's

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not like you've achieved ten things and you're done. And

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that's true business. And that's why right now here on

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motivation Monday, I'm in Chicago because I'm at podcast Movement

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because I don't want.

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To sit still.

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We at the Network have been doing podcasting before it's

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even a word. But every year the road to success

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in podcasting is constantly under construction. And that's why I'm

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here to learn new things, to meet new vendors, to

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get demos of other things, to see how we can

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get bigger and better and more professional, because the road

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to success is constantly under construction. Okay, swamp Nut, your turn.

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What does it mean to you?

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You pretty much answered it already. Well, I always say

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that we're a work in progress. So you all, you

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should all be making progress. Two goals, not just one goal,

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a set of goals, and you constantly have to make yourself.

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Better, absolutely, And like I said in the goals, it

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could be something like, you know, be a better human being.

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That's one that most everybody should be on their goal

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list right now. It could be stuff like that, like

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things about your personality, or I want to start playing

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you know, hockey. Actually it's funny because I just went

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to skate Zone to go scope out getting some new

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equipment so I could play hockey. But that's because I'm like, hmm,

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well I play hockey again.

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It's been a few years.

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It's been actually, I think since before COVID or maybe

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even before the heart attacks.

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I don't know.

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I think it's before the heart attacks or you know,

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it's like it could be something like small, it can

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be something extremely small, like you know, I just want

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to be I just want to relax for the next

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hour and do nothing.

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That is a goal, by the.

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Way, you know, because especially nowadays twenty twenty five, because

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we have all this technology, so we never have to

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switch shut off.

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It's never shut off.

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So we're going go and go and go and go,

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and that we need to schedule time in our life

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for relaxing, for doing nothing. You know, people say stuff

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like about the TV as an example, that's something that

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I do.

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People say like.

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I don't watch TV because blah blah blah blahah blah.

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Well I say, well, if you took an hour of

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your day to just watch some senseless crap on the TV,

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you know, And that's what they're saying. It's like censels

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blah blah blah blah blah. But you know what, why

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is it always have to make sense? Why can't you

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just chill?

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Yeah, sometimes we just need a break from reality.

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No doubt, one hundred percent. There are times too, like here,

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I'll get on my paddle board and I'll paddle like

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into the horizon and I'll just lay on the board

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in the mill of the ocean like I'm way out there,

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because i feel like I'm not anywhere on Earth. I'm

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just there escaping the world. What don't you know, rebel?

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Oh, I mean, I wouldn't say pointless. I mean after

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working all day and looking at a computer all day long,

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oh many computers all day long, I need downtime. So

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when I leave here, I go wherever I'm going for

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the evening, and by the time it's downtime for me,

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it's close to twelve o'clock. So lately I've been watching

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Barney Miller and.

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Say, well, you know, it's really really dada.

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Absolutely fish, Absolutely I like Fish. It actually just set it,

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just reset itself. I had started in like the later

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seasons of eight, Season eight and season eight only his

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episodes to twenty two, back when they used to have

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long episodes in the season. Well, they played twenty one

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and it went on to Bewitch. I'm like, oh, heck, no, I'm.

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Not gonna do this.

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We're not gonna do that. I had to go find

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because that's how they end the show. I had to

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go find episode twenty two.

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But then they reset it. I got something for one.

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This is great.

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You just gave me something for one one. Can you

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tell us to two part question? But if you fail

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the first question, there was no sense in the second part.

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Can you tell us what Bewitched means?

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Are we talking about like the movie Big Witch Store?

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No, we are talking about the TV program though. Okay,

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so I'll let you answer the second question because you're

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kind of on the right path. How many Darren's were

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there and Bewitched?

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Oh?

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Thirteen?

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Oh no, that's the what is that show.

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On Netflix's sixty six?

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No, the one with thirteen thirteen reasons? Why it's not

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thirteen reasons why? Look, he has a blank look on

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his face. He doesn't even know that show.

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And that's I don't know, that's the reasons why.

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You don't.

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Yeah, because it'sbout your generation.

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I could have give him, I could have given them

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way more resents than that.

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But you know, no doubt, I think you're given I

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think the show itself has given people out their reasons

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they're watching it. This is the problem with TV nowadays.

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Like lately, I've been watching these serial care of things,

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and man, I'm getting some great ideas and I know

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where I know where they failed. So the road to

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success is constantly under construction. So by me researching this,

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I know where they failed and I can construct a success.

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Ayman, hi, are you.

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I mean?

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I mean seriously speaking of goal setting?

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Okay, Well, before we get to that rebel, you were

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supposed to ask me a question, is this a good thing? Well,

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of course it's a good thing because you know what

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else too? If it wasn't constantly under construction, be boring age,

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how boring life would be if you had nothing to

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go for.

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I mean, once you accomplish everything you set out to accomplished,

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what happens after that?

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That's back what you were saying before that.

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I say, you accomplish everything by twenty five, what happens

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for the next fifty years? Six years?

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You got keep That's why the road to success is

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constantly under construction.

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You gotta keep on. There's more, doesn't end.

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I got every goal on my dream list that I

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did at twenty three by twenty four except for one thing,

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and I still got ten million goals. I made a

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goal sheet recently like updated it. I always have one.

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Another thing is too, is you have to have it

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with you at all times, like everywhere you go, Like,

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put it on a mirror in your bathroom, put it

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on the refrigerator, put it in the visor of your car,

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put it in your pocket.

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That's easy.

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You got a phone, so you can do it with

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the phone nowadays. I used to literally carry a piece

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of paper in my pocket all the time. With it,

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it has to constantly be in your vision.

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I used to carry rock see my pocket.

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Well that that's that sounds like, uh, something that bothered her?

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All right? So on that note.

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Stuffing in her pants with socks? Is that the same thing?

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No?

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This was when I was little.

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I used to like to Yeah, so with two rocks

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and a pair of tube socks. Oh my, what you've

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never done that, rebel?

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No?

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Why would I?

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Well, I don't see what it would look like if

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you had one.

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No, I never had an interest in knowing.

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What that would.

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Have you ever done anything like? So you would know

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what you would look like if you had up for JJ?

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Seriously?

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Wow?

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Anyway, So back to your list of things to do?

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How can anyone say they're bored when there's a to

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do list like a mile long? Anyone ever got through

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the to do list like they get through their goals.

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Well, to do list our goals, well.

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Then that's a never ending story right there.

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Well, yeah, to do lists our goals. Anything is a

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goal that that you're looking to accomplish something.

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I think what happens is that people set a very

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low bar for themselves because they want to get complacent,

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and then once they reach those goals, they just stop

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trying after that. Yeah, to me, that sounds like a

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miserable life. I would rather have a million things that

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I don't have enough time to accomplish than not having

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anything at all.

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No doubt, one hundred and you know that's why. And

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like in the investment business, I used to have up

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and every place I did a big dry erase board

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and that was like the leader's board.

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You'd put people up there and people.

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Would see their name and how much they did and

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how close it and there were goals and there were

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goals to get bonuses and stuff like that. And the

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key to goal setting is not setting something that's within

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your reach, but also not saying that so far out

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of your reach that you give up. It's supposed to

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be just out of your reach, so you have to

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stretch to reach it. But here otherwise, yeah, you will

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be complacent.

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Most people are too busy doing things for other people

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that they don't put their own goals first. But what

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to help other people.

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Get That's why my goals in life to help people

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to do.

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But if you're too busy doing other things instead of focusing,

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you need to narrow down, and then you'll come up

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with things like, oh, well I need to do this

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so I can make money to do this. Well, the

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money can't come in, but it's going to go to

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something else because you're gonna forget that you're actually on

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this track. That's part of the problem. People are too

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busy doing other things and then other people will jump

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in and say, oh, just forget about everything else and

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just jump forward. But there's you're carrying. You're carrying things

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that are dragging you down. I mean, you might be

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wearing floaties, but you got the rocks tied to your

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feet and they're way too hard to stay afloat.

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You know what's the biggest rock there is? That's right there?

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Know this right there?

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The stinking thinking, the nogging Oh yeah, yeah, the stinking

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thinking is what like, So I'm listening to you, I'm

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listening to you and although you have a point, to me,

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it sounds like that's looking at it in a negative

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sense opposed to the positive sense. That's why when you

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said helping people, I didn't think instantly, I didn't think

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of that as a negative thing. I thought of that as, hey, yeah,

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so I also being a better human being.

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I don't think it's negative thinking. I think it's more

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of perspective and over analyzing. For example, for her, it's

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I need to have something bigger to make a bigger impact.

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For us, it would be more like, even if it's

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a small impact, it's still an impact.

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You know.

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If you wait for things to be perfect, they're never

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going to be perfect, so you're never going to get started, and.

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You do have to break it down.

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You're right, and you do have to break it down

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to minimal things to achieve goals. Like that's the problem.

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People overwhelm themselves. And I hate that word more than

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omo to any on earth, because being overwhelmed is a

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word that makes you overwhelmed, you know, and when you

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say it to yourself, when you say I'm overwhelmed, but

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overwhelmed just means that you're not, like, you know, doing

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steps you want to go from A to Z, but

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you don't want to do be or the rest of them. Like,

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I will break down my tasks into small syncrements and

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I will focus, and then every time you get a

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small task done, it makes you feel good and it

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makes you want to do more and it's goal. It's

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kind of like, Okay, so this is an interesting thing.

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I read all kinds of books that have to do

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with anything business, sales, self help, anything having to do

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that would better my life. You know, I'm not really

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a fiction book reader because I don't read for pleasure.

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I read for knowledge.

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But if I were to read fictional books, when I

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read them, my favorite author is James Patterson. And the

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reason he's my favorite author for fiction is because almost

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every chapter of his all of his books, are two

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pages long. So what happens is since to me, reading

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is more like work than pleasure. If I'm reading a

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fictional book that, let's say it's five hundred pages and

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each chapter is like thirty pages, to me, I'm usually

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I'm usually going to be like, at the end of

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reading that one chapter, I'm like, yeah, I want to

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do this anymore?

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Yeah, because you don't want to stop halfway through the chapter.

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You want to finish the chapter before you close a book.

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No doubt exactly.

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And when they're long chapters, to me, it's like, yeah,

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I don't want to start another chapter. But that happens

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to me with James Parrison books is I finished the

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whole book in one sitting because it's like so easy,

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because Okay, I only have to read two chapters and

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that chapter is done, and next thing you know, I've

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just finished like thirty chapters in no time.

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And it's the mindset.

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It's the mindset of that Okay, I only have to

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and every time I would end a chapter like I'm like, oh, well,

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it's only two more pages, I'll just do another chapter,

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whereas if it were thirty pages, I'm like, yeah, not,

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I'm gonna go do something else.

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So I see this in like my own life right

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where you know, like someone else will enter the house

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the house is a mess, and they'll say like, oh

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my gosh, there's so much work to do. But I

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have that OCD thing that I'm like, I'm doing something,

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and then as I'm doing that, I see I noticed

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something else I needs attention, So I go and do that,

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and then I jump to the next, the next next thing,

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you know, like an hour later, the whole house is

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completely clean. Yeah, And it doesn't even feel like I

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beat anything because it's just like focusing from one piece

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to the next.

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So you guys know me as.

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Over the past several years moving in and out of

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my place twice a year, you know, moving in and

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then moving out, Like and who does that?

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And who can do that?

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And if you see how I do it, Like I'm

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the one man moving crew. I seriously am to it myself.

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But I compartmentalize everything.

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Ye.

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So I'll go into the bedroom and I'll start with

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the closet. Once the closet's done, I'll do another part

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of the bedroom. Once that's done, I'll do the kitchen

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once that's you know, like I'll take each section at

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00:26:48.880 --> 00:26:52.160
a time, and it's like goal setting because every time

461
00:26:52.240 --> 00:26:56.960
I get a section done, it's like, wow, that felt good.

462
00:26:57.359 --> 00:27:00.440
Even with packing, Okay, So I have to pack a

463
00:27:00.519 --> 00:27:03.519
lot for going on the pipe Man Radio Tour, And

464
00:27:04.400 --> 00:27:06.799
so when I was packing for this part of the

465
00:27:06.880 --> 00:27:11.000
Pipemin Radio Tour, like literally two weeks ahead time. I

466
00:27:11.039 --> 00:27:14.640
always like to start packing like at least two weeks beforehand,

467
00:27:15.039 --> 00:27:17.759
and even with the moving out of condo, like I'll

468
00:27:17.839 --> 00:27:21.119
pack everything up and I'll keep narrowing it down to

469
00:27:21.279 --> 00:27:25.839
necessities so it's not overwhelming that by time it's time

470
00:27:25.880 --> 00:27:28.799
for me to actually move out, I pick up my

471
00:27:28.920 --> 00:27:31.319
bag and walk out, and I'm done, and I'm not stressed.

472
00:27:31.319 --> 00:27:35.240
I don't think anything. Same thing with traveling. Okay, I'm

473
00:27:35.319 --> 00:27:39.359
never stressed with traveling, because why are people stressed? They

474
00:27:39.400 --> 00:27:42.799
wait till last minute to pack. That makes them forget stuff.

475
00:27:43.400 --> 00:27:45.519
They're overwhelmed because they gotta do it all and they

476
00:27:45.599 --> 00:27:48.279
gotta be on the flight in the morning. Me, I

477
00:27:48.359 --> 00:27:51.279
started a couple weeks ahead of time, you know, and

478
00:27:51.440 --> 00:27:55.759
I start packing stuff as I'm going along, and then,

479
00:27:56.480 --> 00:28:02.160
you know, the last day before I'm leaving, the only

480
00:28:02.240 --> 00:28:05.920
thing I have to pack is my toilet trees basically,

481
00:28:06.559 --> 00:28:10.200
you know, because that's the only thing left. And then

482
00:28:10.279 --> 00:28:12.920
I never forget anything because here's what happens during that

483
00:28:13.039 --> 00:28:17.079
two weeks. I'll go, oh, crap, I forgot about this,

484
00:28:17.599 --> 00:28:18.519
and then I'll pack it.

485
00:28:19.359 --> 00:28:19.519
You know.

486
00:28:19.680 --> 00:28:21.599
But if I were packing at the last minute, I

487
00:28:21.640 --> 00:28:24.680
wouldn't have that opportunity that would happen once I got

488
00:28:24.720 --> 00:28:30.319
where I was going, you know, So it's about small goals.

489
00:28:30.839 --> 00:28:34.400
Don't make them all big goals. The small goals lead

490
00:28:34.480 --> 00:28:37.440
to the big goal. That's the road to success is

491
00:28:37.519 --> 00:28:41.519
constantly under construction because it's like you have to constantly

492
00:28:41.680 --> 00:28:46.039
go through different parts to get to the end result. Okay,

493
00:28:46.920 --> 00:28:54.119
and so yeah, I mean you'll like this one. So

494
00:28:54.759 --> 00:28:58.119
also in the say, hey, I had a cleaning lady

495
00:28:58.240 --> 00:29:02.000
come here recently, and she asked me, She's like, why

496
00:29:02.079 --> 00:29:05.039
did you have me come? Like where is this like

497
00:29:05.119 --> 00:29:09.400
the way you pick up women or something? Because it

498
00:29:09.599 --> 00:29:13.240
doesn't look like your place needs to be cleaned. I

499
00:29:13.319 --> 00:29:15.839
also had Okay, so when I move out of places

500
00:29:17.359 --> 00:29:20.440
like before when I had the kids, they would always say,

501
00:29:21.519 --> 00:29:23.559
you know, when we would move and i'd move out

502
00:29:23.599 --> 00:29:26.599
there and we were renting a place, they would be like, Dad,

503
00:29:27.359 --> 00:29:29.480
why are you making sure it's so clean? We're not

504
00:29:29.559 --> 00:29:32.000
going to be living here. And my answer to that

505
00:29:32.240 --> 00:29:34.000
is because that's the right thing to do. That's what

506
00:29:34.119 --> 00:29:37.680
I would want done. Leave it, and I always leave

507
00:29:37.720 --> 00:29:40.640
it in better shape. And I moved in, I always

508
00:29:40.720 --> 00:29:43.039
leave it in better shape that I moved in. So

509
00:29:43.920 --> 00:29:47.480
thing one, she had this best friend who was a

510
00:29:47.599 --> 00:29:53.200
lesbian and she was also a landlord tenant attorney, and

511
00:29:54.319 --> 00:29:56.720
I had the what the reason we had to move

512
00:29:56.839 --> 00:30:00.839
one time is the landlord was getting foreclosed on and

513
00:30:01.160 --> 00:30:03.920
so we had to move out. But I still did

514
00:30:04.000 --> 00:30:06.359
everything the way I would do it. And then she

515
00:30:06.559 --> 00:30:09.160
tried to keep my security and she made up all

516
00:30:09.200 --> 00:30:11.839
this stuff like the place was trashed, it was a

517
00:30:11.960 --> 00:30:13.079
mess of blah blah blah.

518
00:30:14.400 --> 00:30:20.039
And I had this lesbian landlord.

519
00:30:19.680 --> 00:30:22.160
T does that have anything to do with her her

520
00:30:22.279 --> 00:30:23.200
sexual status?

521
00:30:23.480 --> 00:30:28.799
Okay, it does, just curious. Lesbian landlord tenant attorney was

522
00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:32.480
at the house before I moved out. And then so

523
00:30:32.680 --> 00:30:35.720
I called her in this and I'm like, can you

524
00:30:36.119 --> 00:30:39.160
believe this one? She goes to me, Okay, you ready,

525
00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:42.680
this is where it does pertain Rebel. So pay attention.

526
00:30:43.839 --> 00:30:47.519
She goes, are you kidding me? You can eat off

527
00:30:47.599 --> 00:30:50.400
your floor. You give gay guys a run for their money,

528
00:30:54.480 --> 00:30:57.359
and she goes, I would never say that a boat man,

529
00:30:57.519 --> 00:31:01.240
because I've never seen a man straight man that's like that.

530
00:31:01.839 --> 00:31:05.359
So yes, it did pertain Rebel. Okay, Okay, So but

531
00:31:05.519 --> 00:31:09.359
here's the thing, perfect example. I have a daughter that

532
00:31:09.480 --> 00:31:12.119
she used to work at the station, and then when

533
00:31:12.160 --> 00:31:15.200
she when she lived with me and now always has

534
00:31:15.759 --> 00:31:19.079
dishes overflowing the sink where you can't even if you

535
00:31:19.160 --> 00:31:22.960
need to wash the dish, you couldn't because there's no

536
00:31:24.079 --> 00:31:27.440
place to get under the faucet even.

537
00:31:27.559 --> 00:31:34.599
Okay, I know what daughter that is and me my dad.

538
00:31:34.880 --> 00:31:40.279
Okay, So my grandfather was a My grandparents owned a

539
00:31:40.559 --> 00:31:42.680
kosher bakery and he was known as one of the

540
00:31:42.799 --> 00:31:46.440
best bakers in the world and one and one of

541
00:31:46.480 --> 00:31:49.519
the best cake decorators in the world. And when I

542
00:31:49.599 --> 00:31:51.440
was a kid, my dad used to teach me what

543
00:31:51.680 --> 00:31:56.279
his dad taught him, which was you clean as you go. Okay,

544
00:31:57.119 --> 00:32:01.839
And so as an example, pay Ah Passover is coming

545
00:32:01.920 --> 00:32:07.000
up soon. I would make satyrs at my house and

546
00:32:08.480 --> 00:32:13.759
usually like Thanksgiving, people dread doing that because they dread

547
00:32:13.839 --> 00:32:17.759
to clean up afterwards. And whether it was that or Thanksgiving,

548
00:32:17.920 --> 00:32:20.000
by time we were seeing at the table to eat,

549
00:32:20.240 --> 00:32:23.160
the whole kitchen was already clean to where at the

550
00:32:23.279 --> 00:32:25.000
end of the meal the only thing cleaned was what

551
00:32:25.240 --> 00:32:27.359
was on the table, whereas a lot of people they

552
00:32:27.519 --> 00:32:30.079
just dump everything in the sink, and then it is

553
00:32:30.200 --> 00:32:33.240
overwhelming because then you walk into that kitchen, you see

554
00:32:33.279 --> 00:32:35.039
all that stuff and you don't want to do anything

555
00:32:35.279 --> 00:32:37.440
and you're like, I'm going to bed, I'll do it tomorrow.

556
00:32:38.039 --> 00:32:42.559
Whereas me, you can never walk into my place and

557
00:32:42.720 --> 00:32:45.920
see something in the sink because a minute I'm done using,

558
00:32:46.400 --> 00:32:49.519
I clean it and put it away and then it's

559
00:32:49.599 --> 00:32:54.799
not hard, it's not overwhelming ever, it's like and you

560
00:32:54.960 --> 00:32:56.759
never have to like I had a problem with the

561
00:32:56.799 --> 00:33:00.640
garbage disposal, a lot of plumber coming here. Okay, Now

562
00:33:00.720 --> 00:33:02.759
most people are like, oh shit, I'm gonna have to

563
00:33:02.839 --> 00:33:03.319
clean up.

564
00:33:04.039 --> 00:33:05.759
I didn't. It was already clean.

565
00:33:06.680 --> 00:33:09.279
It was in and out in two seconds. Fixed done.

566
00:33:10.920 --> 00:33:14.519
That's why the road to success is constantly under construction,

567
00:33:14.599 --> 00:33:21.960
because you want to do these things and compartmentalized and

568
00:33:22.160 --> 00:33:27.440
steps take steps. You don't have to jump across the river,

569
00:33:28.799 --> 00:33:30.480
takes steps across the rocks.

570
00:33:30.839 --> 00:33:34.000
Yeah, so the dishous thing does resonate with me because

571
00:33:34.039 --> 00:33:35.880
I am that type of guy, and it's probably just

572
00:33:36.000 --> 00:33:39.200
like an OCD thing where one of my biggest pet

573
00:33:39.240 --> 00:33:41.559
peeves is seeing dirty dishes in the sink. To me,

574
00:33:41.680 --> 00:33:45.519
that's like very unsanitary and like I have literally never

575
00:33:45.559 --> 00:33:48.799
seen a woman who cleans the dishes more than I do.

576
00:33:49.839 --> 00:33:54.240
No, And you know, thing one was foolish because she

577
00:33:54.440 --> 00:33:58.440
trained me wrong because when we first got married, I

578
00:33:58.680 --> 00:34:01.400
was I was doing my own own dishes, and she

579
00:34:01.599 --> 00:34:03.920
yelled at me. She's like, you're doing them wrong. Here,

580
00:34:04.759 --> 00:34:06.319
give it to me, let me do it. Don't ever

581
00:34:06.440 --> 00:34:08.840
do the dishes again. You don't have to ask me twice.

582
00:34:08.880 --> 00:34:10.079
I never did the dishes ever.

583
00:34:10.159 --> 00:34:10.480
Again.

584
00:34:11.320 --> 00:34:13.800
Here's the thing, though, here's the thing. What does she

585
00:34:13.920 --> 00:34:16.360
mean by wrong? Were they not clean afterwards?

586
00:34:16.920 --> 00:34:19.280
Well, everybody has their way, I know.

587
00:34:19.559 --> 00:34:21.039
Like that's why I'm asking.

588
00:34:21.440 --> 00:34:24.280
Yeah, my bro's wife she's like that.

589
00:34:24.519 --> 00:34:28.840
And every time I would stay there, she like, h Dean,

590
00:34:29.039 --> 00:34:31.159
just just leave it on the just leave it on

591
00:34:31.239 --> 00:34:33.400
the counter, Just leave it on the counter. And I'm

592
00:34:33.440 --> 00:34:35.800
being helpful, but she didn't want me. She makes it

593
00:34:36.119 --> 00:34:38.519
as not helpful because she has her own way of

594
00:34:38.639 --> 00:34:41.920
paying them in the dishwasher, and you're just gonna screw

595
00:34:42.000 --> 00:34:42.280
it up.

596
00:34:43.039 --> 00:34:45.519
Let me do it as if it doesn't get washed,

597
00:34:45.519 --> 00:34:47.599
if it's not properly done in the dishwasher.

598
00:34:48.039 --> 00:34:52.000
Yeah, I have been through that. I've been through that before,

599
00:34:52.039 --> 00:34:54.440
and I say, like, does he matter how he gets done,

600
00:34:54.440 --> 00:34:56.840
as long as he gets done right?

601
00:34:57.000 --> 00:34:59.800
Exactly Listen. I would never say that to somebody because

602
00:34:59.800 --> 00:35:02.199
you know what that means means I gotta do more work.

603
00:35:02.880 --> 00:35:03.119
Dude.

604
00:35:03.280 --> 00:35:06.039
This is any fricking way you want, as well as

605
00:35:06.079 --> 00:35:06.679
you're doing them.

606
00:35:06.800 --> 00:35:07.400
I don't care.

607
00:35:07.760 --> 00:35:10.079
As long as I can eat off a clean plate,

608
00:35:10.679 --> 00:35:13.079
that's all that matters to me. And it's not sitting

609
00:35:13.159 --> 00:35:15.440
in the sink. That's what would bother me if it

610
00:35:15.519 --> 00:35:19.280
was sitting in the sink. Like literally, Okay, the last

611
00:35:19.440 --> 00:35:23.800
time this daughter lived with me, she wasn't living with me.

612
00:35:24.199 --> 00:35:27.599
I moved out of my ocean condo to get like

613
00:35:27.719 --> 00:35:31.239
a five bedroom house for her to move in and

614
00:35:32.239 --> 00:35:33.639
my grandson to move in.

615
00:35:35.119 --> 00:35:37.400
And I we weren't there but a month. Okay.

616
00:35:37.440 --> 00:35:40.239
It's one thing when your kids are teenagers, like you're

617
00:35:40.280 --> 00:35:43.960
in mindset that's to be expected, Like you know, when

618
00:35:44.000 --> 00:35:47.679
they're teenagers, Yeah, they're gonna be leaving crap in a

619
00:35:47.840 --> 00:35:50.760
sink and this and that. After about a month, I

620
00:35:50.840 --> 00:35:54.199
had a talk where I'm like, I signed a year

621
00:35:54.320 --> 00:35:56.360
lease and I'm just here to tell you I'm not

622
00:35:56.559 --> 00:35:59.119
redoing it when the year comes up, so you have

623
00:35:59.440 --> 00:36:03.440
eleven months to find the place. And the reason was

624
00:36:03.639 --> 00:36:06.920
is because the sink was overflowing and I couldn't even

625
00:36:07.000 --> 00:36:09.519
clean a dish I'm like, I'm not going to live

626
00:36:09.639 --> 00:36:13.360
like that. And my viewpoint is you're an adult and

627
00:36:13.519 --> 00:36:16.719
a mother. Now I don't have to put up with it,

628
00:36:16.880 --> 00:36:19.000
like you should know better. I have to tell you,

629
00:36:19.639 --> 00:36:22.679
you know, And I mean it was probably a good

630
00:36:22.760 --> 00:36:25.760
thing that happened for her, because otherwise she'd be like

631
00:36:25.840 --> 00:36:27.239
a lot of these other millennials.

632
00:36:27.320 --> 00:36:29.760
And we've been living with me till she was fifty two.

633
00:36:33.280 --> 00:36:36.079
So the house around the corner from the golf course.

634
00:36:38.400 --> 00:36:40.280
I had a golf course in the backyard.

635
00:36:40.760 --> 00:36:41.519
Yeah, that okay?

636
00:36:41.639 --> 00:36:45.119
Is that one I believe? Yeah?

637
00:36:45.119 --> 00:36:48.199
I think so, Okay, they did have a golf course,

638
00:36:51.800 --> 00:36:59.039
you know. So, Yeah, the road to success is constantly

639
00:36:59.199 --> 00:37:07.559
under construction. And yes, to answer your question, rebel, it

640
00:37:07.760 --> 00:37:10.679
is a good thing. It's a very good thing. It's

641
00:37:10.719 --> 00:37:14.079
a bad thing when it's not under construction. We always

642
00:37:14.159 --> 00:37:17.599
want better ourselves. We always want to do other things.

643
00:37:17.880 --> 00:37:21.000
We always want to have other experiences, we always want

644
00:37:21.039 --> 00:37:25.119
to have other adventures. That's what's life's about. And that's

645
00:37:25.159 --> 00:37:28.920
what The Adventures of Pipe Man is about. And now

646
00:37:29.679 --> 00:37:33.920
I gotta go do to some session here at podcast moment,

647
00:37:34.000 --> 00:37:38.360
and I'm wearing my oh I'm not wearing it yet

648
00:37:38.400 --> 00:37:41.079
I'm wearing that tomorrow I have I have one. Now

649
00:37:41.079 --> 00:37:46.199
I'm wearing tomorrow. That's uh since podcast celebrity. Now I'm

650
00:37:46.239 --> 00:37:51.000
wearing cast Away. All your problems or yeah, all your troubles.

651
00:37:51.480 --> 00:37:56.199
Life is good. So if you if life is good,

652
00:37:57.519 --> 00:38:01.239
it is good if you take the that is constantly

653
00:38:01.599 --> 00:38:05.400
under construction. All right, tune in again to the adventures

654
00:38:05.440 --> 00:38:08.880
of pipe Man Monday Tuesday Wednesday, one pm Eastern Time.

655
00:38:09.440 --> 00:38:12.519
Here on W four c Y Radio, W four c

656
00:38:12.760 --> 00:38:16.119
Y dot com, roll it one.

657
00:38:23.480 --> 00:38:28.280
Thank you for listening to the adventures of Pipemin on

658
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