The Road to Success is Constantly Under Construction

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0:48 Whyke up of America? It's time for the adventures? So Fight Man, I'll go before see why I com with Pompeach's number fun internet radio station. Here's your host, the Fight Man, y Oh Motivational Monday Man, And I gotta tell you the road to success is constantly under construction, and as so true on this show because we're actually every day this past couple weeks, we're like testing better ways because you know, the pipe Man moves around a lot, and sometimes the Internet can be crap and that's terrible because you know, if I'm in the studio, the Internet's perfect.

1:35 But sometimes when I do it from outside the studio. Not so much. So we're doing testing every day different ways because the road to success of the Adventures of Pipe Man is constantly under construction, and that's why we need the pipe nuts. That's your cue one. I know. I just wanted to make your sweat a little bit right. If it weren't for Rebel, we could be the men in black. They do have females.

2:16 Yeah, but that's a new one. We're talking old school. Yeah, so you want to be a man in black rebel? Rebel is the only one that is. Is that true? You were back? Are you wear black? Okay? I want to make that was true because you're saying no, Well, I'm saying you're you're the only one here in black. I said, there's not only men in men in black, But but. Then are women in black? They're not men in black. Exactly, but it's still the men in black movie. So it's all good. It's women. Okay, So I think, correct me if I'm wrong. Black person in black, So. Correct me if I'm wrong. But I think it's women in black. But the w all in the beginning, it's silent.

3:01 Well, here's what I think. That's a good one. But here's what I think. Okay, So basically, it's twenty twenty five and they're going to do a reboot of that movie and they're going to call it People in Black because you don't know, it could be fifty eight different genders. You know. I've actually had to fill out an application where there were literally like fifty eight choices for gender. So this is going to be a fifty eight shades of People in Black. So here's a thing. Okay, So. I'm talking about the testing and stuff. So we're just testing what's going to be best. So far, I'm liking this, but now I just gave myself a kind of her.

3:49 And for those of you that don't understand Jewish, that means I jinxed myself. That's why most a lot of Jews are superstitious, and a lot of them like they'll start to say something I'm like, and they'll be like, uh, yeah, I'm not gonna say that because he'll give it a kin of hur you know. And and it is true every time I say stuff I don't know, I don't know that. The psychic energy and this one has been strong lately. I've been freaking a lot of people out. But you know, the road to success is constantly under construction.

4:31 So I want to ask my pipe. Nuts here, is that a good thing or a bad thing? Well, I'm going to answer that after you guys answered the question. But I do have an answer for it. Okay, so ask me again, remember rebel, ask me again after it, I'll ask you second. So i'll ask one first, your second, and then when you're done answer and you're like, hey, is that a good thing or a bad thing? Or you could do it your way and say, hey, is that a good thing or a bad thing? Am I do I do that? One? Pretty good? One? One? Do I do it? Pretty good?

5:13 It's close enough. I don't think you can reach the level of highness. Hello, exactly, No, I just don't think I can reach that level of creepiness. Okay, so I was trying to be nice. We uh here here's the question. Okay. I have a poster for this too that has all these different things on it. It's really cool. I gotta find it, but uh, probably it probably got ruined and that's probably why I don't know where it is, or else it would be up on the wall. But we'll ask you one first, Okay. So what does that mean to you?

5:53 If I say to you the road to success is constantly under construction, what does that mean to you? And rebels don't cheat and take notes, you know, and give your own answer. Okay, So from my perspective, success is answer. Success is not the end goal. Success is a milestone because once you accomplish what you were set to accomplish, there should be a new set of accomplishments that you set out to accomplish. Did you happen to read my book? Who said life doesn't come in owners Manuel? Because that's in there? Actually no, but it's close enough to me where I'm just channeling. It, I think so. But no, it is you are like spot on with what you just said. Because listen, that's why I do this thing. It's in my book.

6:43 It's called the goal Getter. You know, I've read all the goal same books. One of the number one books of all time by Napoleon Hill is Think and Grow, Rich. Love, Love, Love that book. Unfortunately, most people do not follow in the instruction in that book because that book has a lot of instructions because success is a lot of work. Reaching your goals is a lot of work. But people they don't want that. That's why we live in this society of big pharma, where like I don't want to do to work to get healthy. Let me just take some pills and it'll be all better, you know, And same with that. So basically, yes, there's no time, Like if somebody asks you, is there ever a time that you've reached all your goals and you have no more goals? If you say yes to that, there's something wrong, because that's why the road to you're right, that's why to road to success is constantly under construction because you're constantly evolving, you're constantly trying to you know, be better, You're constantly trying to renew yourself, You're constantly trying to add on to the foundation.

7:56 And so basically, yeah, I. Mean the goal getter what it is is so in Think and Grow Rich, you have all these things you have to do, and I've done them all, and it's a lot of work. Like you do, you a full time job to do your goals. If you really follow Think and Grow Rich. But if you follow the goal getter, all you have to do is tay, got a piece of paper, write down goal getter at the top and number one through ten and put the ten things that you want most out of life. Now. Those ten things can be short term, medium term, long term. They can be small, they can be big. They can be about your personality. They could be about money, they could be about your job, a career. They could be about something you need to get or want to get, or it could be anything you want to be. Okay, So, like I remember, when I first started doing this, I was like, yeah, I would like to have kids, and I was specifica you gotta be specific with your goals, okay, because then, like I think a year later, I had three of them. So you got to be very specific of what you want when you ask for things. But that being said, yeah absolutely, you know listen, and what I tell people that do is you make that list and every time you reach something on that list, you

9:26 take it off and replace it with something else. It's not like you've achieved ten things and you're done. And that's true business. And that's why right now here on motivation Monday, I'm in Chicago because I'm at podcast Movement because I don't want. To sit still. We at the Network have been doing podcasting before it's even a word. But every year the road to success in podcasting is constantly under construction. And that's why I'm here to learn new things, to meet new vendors, to get demos of other things, to see how we can get bigger and better and more professional, because the road to success is constantly under construction. Okay, swamp Nut, your turn.

10:19 What does it mean to you? You pretty much answered it already. Well, I always say that we're a work in progress. So you all, you should all be making progress. Two goals, not just one goal, a set of goals, and you constantly have to make yourself. Better, absolutely, And like I said in the goals, it could be something like, you know, be a better human being. That's one that most everybody should be on their goal list right now. It could be stuff like that, like things about your personality, or I want to start playing you know, hockey. Actually it's funny because I just went to skate Zone to go scope out getting some new equipment so I could play hockey. But that's because I'm like, hmm, well I play hockey again.

11:20 It's been a few years. It's been actually, I think since before COVID or maybe even before the heart attacks. I don't know. I think it's before the heart attacks or you know, it's like it could be something like small, it can be something extremely small, like you know, I just want to be I just want to relax for the next hour and do nothing. That is a goal, by the. Way, you know, because especially nowadays twenty twenty five, because we have all this technology, so we never have to switch shut off. It's never shut off. So we're going go and go and go and go, and that we need to schedule time in our life for relaxing, for doing nothing. You know, people say stuff like about the TV as an example, that's something that I do.

12:14 People say like. I don't watch TV because blah blah blah blahah blah. Well I say, well, if you took an hour of your day to just watch some senseless crap on the TV, you know, And that's what they're saying. It's like censels blah blah blah blah blah. But you know what, why is it always have to make sense? Why can't you just chill? Yeah, sometimes we just need a break from reality. No doubt, one hundred percent. There are times too, like here, I'll get on my paddle board and I'll paddle like into the horizon and I'll just lay on the board in the mill of the ocean like I'm way out there, because i feel like I'm not anywhere on Earth. I'm just there escaping the world. What don't you know, rebel?

13:13 Oh, I mean, I wouldn't say pointless. I mean after working all day and looking at a computer all day long, oh many computers all day long, I need downtime. So when I leave here, I go wherever I'm going for the evening, and by the time it's downtime for me, it's close to twelve o'clock. So lately I've been watching Barney Miller and. Say, well, you know, it's really really dada. Absolutely fish, Absolutely I like Fish. It actually just set it, just reset itself. I had started in like the later seasons of eight, Season eight and season eight only his episodes to twenty two, back when they used to have long episodes in the season. Well, they played twenty one and it went on to Bewitch. I'm like, oh, heck, no, I'm.

14:16 Not gonna do this. We're not gonna do that. I had to go find because that's how they end the show. I had to go find episode twenty two. But then they reset it. I got something for one. This is great. You just gave me something for one one. Can you tell us to two part question? But if you fail the first question, there was no sense in the second part. Can you tell us what Bewitched means? Are we talking about like the movie Big Witch Store? No, we are talking about the TV program though. Okay, so I'll let you answer the second question because you're kind of on the right path. How many Darren's were there and Bewitched?

15:05 Oh? Thirteen? Oh no, that's the what is that show. On Netflix's sixty six? No, the one with thirteen thirteen reasons? Why it's not thirteen reasons why? Look, he has a blank look on his face. He doesn't even know that show. And that's I don't know, that's the reasons why. You don't. Yeah, because it'sbout your generation. I could have give him, I could have given them way more resents than that. But you know, no doubt, I think you're given I think the show itself has given people out their reasons they're watching it. This is the problem with TV nowadays.

15:47 Like lately, I've been watching these serial care of things, and man, I'm getting some great ideas and I know where I know where they failed. So the road to success is constantly under construction. So by me researching this, I know where they failed and I can construct a success. Ayman, hi, are you. I mean? I mean seriously speaking of goal setting? Okay, Well, before we get to that rebel, you were supposed to ask me a question, is this a good thing? Well, of course it's a good thing because you know what else too? If it wasn't constantly under construction, be boring age, how boring life would be if you had nothing to go for.

16:45 I mean, once you accomplish everything you set out to accomplished, what happens after that? That's back what you were saying before that. I say, you accomplish everything by twenty five, what happens for the next fifty years? Six years? You got keep That's why the road to success is constantly under construction. You gotta keep on. There's more, doesn't end. I got every goal on my dream list that I did at twenty three by twenty four except for one thing, and I still got ten million goals. I made a goal sheet recently like updated it. I always have one.

17:28 Another thing is too, is you have to have it with you at all times, like everywhere you go, Like, put it on a mirror in your bathroom, put it on the refrigerator, put it in the visor of your car, put it in your pocket. That's easy. You got a phone, so you can do it with the phone nowadays. I used to literally carry a piece of paper in my pocket all the time. With it, it has to constantly be in your vision. I used to carry rock see my pocket. Well that that's that sounds like, uh, something that bothered her?

18:15 All right? So on that note. Stuffing in her pants with socks? Is that the same thing? No? This was when I was little. I used to like to Yeah, so with two rocks and a pair of tube socks. Oh my, what you've never done that, rebel? No? Why would I? Well, I don't see what it would look like if you had one. No, I never had an interest in knowing. What that would. Have you ever done anything like? So you would know what you would look like if you had up for JJ?

18:58 Seriously? Wow? Anyway, So back to your list of things to do? How can anyone say they're bored when there's a to do list like a mile long? Anyone ever got through the to do list like they get through their goals. Well, to do list our goals, well. Then that's a never ending story right there. Well, yeah, to do lists our goals. Anything is a goal that that you're looking to accomplish something. I think what happens is that people set a very low bar for themselves because they want to get complacent, and then once they reach those goals, they just stop trying after that. Yeah, to me, that sounds like a miserable life. I would rather have a million things that I don't have enough time to accomplish than not having anything at all.

19:49 No doubt, one hundred and you know that's why. And like in the investment business, I used to have up and every place I did a big dry erase board and that was like the leader's board. You'd put people up there and people. Would see their name and how much they did and how close it and there were goals and there were goals to get bonuses and stuff like that. And the key to goal setting is not setting something that's within your reach, but also not saying that so far out of your reach that you give up. It's supposed to be just out of your reach, so you have to stretch to reach it. But here otherwise, yeah, you will be complacent.

20:38 Most people are too busy doing things for other people that they don't put their own goals first. But what to help other people. Get That's why my goals in life to help people to do. But if you're too busy doing other things instead of focusing, you need to narrow down, and then you'll come up with things like, oh, well I need to do this so I can make money to do this. Well, the money can't come in, but it's going to go to something else because you're gonna forget that you're actually on this track. That's part of the problem. People are too busy doing other things and then other people will jump in and say, oh, just forget about everything else and just jump forward. But there's you're carrying. You're carrying things that are dragging you down. I mean, you might be wearing floaties, but you got the rocks tied to your feet and they're way too hard to stay afloat.

21:33 You know what's the biggest rock there is? That's right there? Know this right there? The stinking thinking, the nogging Oh yeah, yeah, the stinking thinking is what like, So I'm listening to you, I'm listening to you and although you have a point, to me, it sounds like that's looking at it in a negative sense opposed to the positive sense. That's why when you said helping people, I didn't think instantly, I didn't think of that as a negative thing. I thought of that as, hey, yeah, so I also being a better human being.

22:20 I don't think it's negative thinking. I think it's more of perspective and over analyzing. For example, for her, it's I need to have something bigger to make a bigger impact. For us, it would be more like, even if it's a small impact, it's still an impact. You know. If you wait for things to be perfect, they're never going to be perfect, so you're never going to get started, and. You do have to break it down. You're right, and you do have to break it down to minimal things to achieve goals. Like that's the problem. People overwhelm themselves. And I hate that word more than omo to any on earth, because being overwhelmed is a word that makes you overwhelmed, you know, and when you say it to yourself, when you say I'm overwhelmed, but overwhelmed just means that you're not, like, you know, doing steps you want to go from A to Z, but you don't want to do be or the rest of them. Like, I will break down my tasks into small syncrements and I will focus, and then every time you get a small task done, it makes you feel good and it makes you want to do more and it's goal. It's kind of like, Okay, so this is an interesting thing.

23:43 I read all kinds of books that have to do with anything business, sales, self help, anything having to do that would better my life. You know, I'm not really a fiction book reader because I don't read for pleasure. I read for knowledge. But if I were to read fictional books, when I read them, my favorite author is James Patterson. And the reason he's my favorite author for fiction is because almost every chapter of his all of his books, are two pages long. So what happens is since to me, reading is more like work than pleasure. If I'm reading a fictional book that, let's say it's five hundred pages and each chapter is like thirty pages, to me, I'm usually I'm usually going to be like, at the end of reading that one chapter, I'm like, yeah, I want to do this anymore?

24:47 Yeah, because you don't want to stop halfway through the chapter. You want to finish the chapter before you close a book. No doubt exactly. And when they're long chapters, to me, it's like, yeah, I don't want to start another chapter. But that happens to me with James Parrison books is I finished the whole book in one sitting because it's like so easy, because Okay, I only have to read two chapters and that chapter is done, and next thing you know, I've just finished like thirty chapters in no time. And it's the mindset. It's the mindset of that Okay, I only have to and every time I would end a chapter like I'm like, oh, well, it's only two more pages, I'll just do another chapter, whereas if it were thirty pages, I'm like, yeah, not, I'm gonna go do something else.

25:33 So I see this in like my own life right where you know, like someone else will enter the house the house is a mess, and they'll say like, oh my gosh, there's so much work to do. But I have that OCD thing that I'm like, I'm doing something, and then as I'm doing that, I see I noticed something else I needs attention, So I go and do that, and then I jump to the next, the next next thing, you know, like an hour later, the whole house is completely clean. Yeah, And it doesn't even feel like I beat anything because it's just like focusing from one piece to the next. So you guys know me as. Over the past several years moving in and out of my place twice a year, you know, moving in and then moving out, Like and who does that?

26:21 And who can do that? And if you see how I do it, Like I'm the one man moving crew. I seriously am to it myself. But I compartmentalize everything. Ye. So I'll go into the bedroom and I'll start with the closet. Once the closet's done, I'll do another part of the bedroom. Once that's done, I'll do the kitchen once that's you know, like I'll take each section at a time, and it's like goal setting because every time I get a section done, it's like, wow, that felt good. Even with packing, Okay, So I have to pack a lot for going on the pipe Man Radio Tour, And so when I was packing for this part of the Pipemin Radio Tour, like literally two weeks ahead time. I always like to start packing like at least two weeks beforehand, and even with the moving out of condo, like I'll pack everything up and I'll keep narrowing it down to necessities so it's not overwhelming that by time it's time for me to actually move out, I pick up my bag and walk out, and I'm done, and I'm not stressed.

27:31 I don't think anything. Same thing with traveling. Okay, I'm never stressed with traveling, because why are people stressed? They wait till last minute to pack. That makes them forget stuff. They're overwhelmed because they gotta do it all and they gotta be on the flight in the morning. Me, I started a couple weeks ahead of time, you know, and I start packing stuff as I'm going along, and then, you know, the last day before I'm leaving, the only thing I have to pack is my toilet trees basically, you know, because that's the only thing left. And then I never forget anything because here's what happens during that two weeks. I'll go, oh, crap, I forgot about this, and then I'll pack it.

28:19 You know. But if I were packing at the last minute, I wouldn't have that opportunity that would happen once I got where I was going, you know, So it's about small goals. Don't make them all big goals. The small goals lead to the big goal. That's the road to success is constantly under construction because it's like you have to constantly go through different parts to get to the end result. Okay, and so yeah, I mean you'll like this one. So also in the say, hey, I had a cleaning lady come here recently, and she asked me, She's like, why did you have me come? Like where is this like the way you pick up women or something? Because it doesn't look like your place needs to be cleaned. I also had Okay, so when I move out of places like before when I had the kids, they would always say, you know, when we would move and i'd move out there and we were renting a place, they would be like, Dad, why are you making sure it's so clean? We're not going to be living here. And my answer to that is because that's the right thing to do. That's what I would want done. Leave it, and I always leave it in better shape. And I moved in, I always leave it in better shape that I moved in. So thing one, she had this best friend who was a lesbian and she was also a landlord tenant attorney, and

29:54 I had the what the reason we had to move one time is the landlord was getting foreclosed on and so we had to move out. But I still did everything the way I would do it. And then she tried to keep my security and she made up all this stuff like the place was trashed, it was a mess of blah blah blah. And I had this lesbian landlord. T does that have anything to do with her her sexual status? Okay, it does, just curious. Lesbian landlord tenant attorney was at the house before I moved out. And then so I called her in this and I'm like, can you believe this one? She goes to me, Okay, you ready, this is where it does pertain Rebel. So pay attention.

30:43 She goes, are you kidding me? You can eat off your floor. You give gay guys a run for their money, and she goes, I would never say that a boat man, because I've never seen a man straight man that's like that. So yes, it did pertain Rebel. Okay, Okay, So but here's the thing, perfect example. I have a daughter that she used to work at the station, and then when she when she lived with me and now always has dishes overflowing the sink where you can't even if you need to wash the dish, you couldn't because there's no place to get under the faucet even.

31:27 Okay, I know what daughter that is and me my dad. Okay, So my grandfather was a My grandparents owned a kosher bakery and he was known as one of the best bakers in the world and one and one of the best cake decorators in the world. And when I was a kid, my dad used to teach me what his dad taught him, which was you clean as you go. Okay, And so as an example, pay Ah Passover is coming up soon. I would make satyrs at my house and usually like Thanksgiving, people dread doing that because they dread to clean up afterwards. And whether it was that or Thanksgiving, by time we were seeing at the table to eat, the whole kitchen was already clean to where at the end of the meal the only thing cleaned was what was on the table, whereas a lot of people they just dump everything in the sink, and then it is overwhelming because then you walk into that kitchen, you see all that stuff and you don't want to do anything and you're like, I'm going to bed, I'll do it tomorrow.

32:38 Whereas me, you can never walk into my place and see something in the sink because a minute I'm done using, I clean it and put it away and then it's not hard, it's not overwhelming ever, it's like and you never have to like I had a problem with the garbage disposal, a lot of plumber coming here. Okay, Now most people are like, oh shit, I'm gonna have to clean up. I didn't. It was already clean. It was in and out in two seconds. Fixed done. That's why the road to success is constantly under construction, because you want to do these things and compartmentalized and steps take steps. You don't have to jump across the river, takes steps across the rocks.

33:30 Yeah, so the dishous thing does resonate with me because I am that type of guy, and it's probably just like an OCD thing where one of my biggest pet peeves is seeing dirty dishes in the sink. To me, that's like very unsanitary and like I have literally never seen a woman who cleans the dishes more than I do. No, And you know, thing one was foolish because she trained me wrong because when we first got married, I was I was doing my own own dishes, and she yelled at me. She's like, you're doing them wrong. Here, give it to me, let me do it. Don't ever do the dishes again. You don't have to ask me twice. I never did the dishes ever. Again.

34:11 Here's the thing, though, here's the thing. What does she mean by wrong? Were they not clean afterwards? Well, everybody has their way, I know. Like that's why I'm asking. Yeah, my bro's wife she's like that. And every time I would stay there, she like, h Dean, just just leave it on the just leave it on the counter, Just leave it on the counter. And I'm being helpful, but she didn't want me. She makes it as not helpful because she has her own way of paying them in the dishwasher, and you're just gonna screw it up. Let me do it as if it doesn't get washed, if it's not properly done in the dishwasher. Yeah, I have been through that. I've been through that before, and I say, like, does he matter how he gets done, as long as he gets done right?

34:57 Exactly Listen. I would never say that to somebody because you know what that means means I gotta do more work. Dude. This is any fricking way you want, as well as you're doing them. I don't care. As long as I can eat off a clean plate, that's all that matters to me. And it's not sitting in the sink. That's what would bother me if it was sitting in the sink. Like literally, Okay, the last time this daughter lived with me, she wasn't living with me. I moved out of my ocean condo to get like a five bedroom house for her to move in and my grandson to move in. And I we weren't there but a month. Okay.

35:37 It's one thing when your kids are teenagers, like you're in mindset that's to be expected, Like you know, when they're teenagers, Yeah, they're gonna be leaving crap in a sink and this and that. After about a month, I had a talk where I'm like, I signed a year lease and I'm just here to tell you I'm not redoing it when the year comes up, so you have eleven months to find the place. And the reason was is because the sink was overflowing and I couldn't even clean a dish I'm like, I'm not going to live like that. And my viewpoint is you're an adult and a mother. Now I don't have to put up with it, like you should know better. I have to tell you, you know, And I mean it was probably a good thing that happened for her, because otherwise she'd be like a lot of these other millennials.

36:27 And we've been living with me till she was fifty two. So the house around the corner from the golf course. I had a golf course in the backyard. Yeah, that okay? Is that one I believe? Yeah? I think so, Okay, they did have a golf course, you know. So, Yeah, the road to success is constantly under construction. And yes, to answer your question, rebel, it is a good thing. It's a very good thing. It's a bad thing when it's not under construction. We always want better ourselves. We always want to do other things.

37:17 We always want to have other experiences, we always want to have other adventures. That's what's life's about. And that's what The Adventures of Pipe Man is about. And now I gotta go do to some session here at podcast moment, and I'm wearing my oh I'm not wearing it yet I'm wearing that tomorrow I have I have one. Now I'm wearing tomorrow. That's uh since podcast celebrity. Now I'm wearing cast Away. All your problems or yeah, all your troubles. Life is good. So if you if life is good, it is good if you take the that is constantly under construction. All right, tune in again to the adventures of pipe Man Monday Tuesday Wednesday, one pm Eastern Time.

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