March 8, 2024

PipemanRadio Interviews EKOH about NEW SINGLE MAYDAY

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Join The Pipeman, your host, on a journey through the soundscapes of raw emotion and truth as we sit down with the phenomenal artist EKOH....

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Join The Pipeman, your host, on a journey through the soundscapes of raw emotion and truth as we sit down with the phenomenal artist EKOH. Together, we unravel the layers of 'heart hop'—a genre his fans coined, capturing the essence of his deeply personal and authentic songwriting. EKOH's connection with his audience goes beyond the music; it's a bond forged in genuine self-expression and a shared understanding that when an artist remains true to themselves, the music they create not only resonates on a personal level but also strikes a universal chord.

Listen in as EKOH and I explore the complexities of vulnerability in our latest track, "Mayday," a raw depiction of the challenges faced when opening up in relationships. This heart-to-heart reveals how societal norms often discourage the expression of emotions, especially among men, leading to a disconnect in our most intimate bonds. We reflect on the paradox that it's often in moments of crisis, when all pretenses fall away, that we feel the closest to others. This candid discussion sheds light on the profound need for authenticity, both in our personal lives and in the public eye, and how being seen for who we truly are is vital for growth and happiness.

In the final chapter of our conversation, we reminisce about the unforgettable free show on February 9th, a collaboration that celebrated community and mental health awareness. The event, which featured Vans and the philanthropic efforts of MusicCares, showcased how the music industry can come together to support fans facing financial hardships, while also addressing the increasing pressures of social media. EKOH shares his gratitude for the event's success, emphasizing the importance of staying true to the roots of music as a form of resistance and self-expression. This episode is a heartfelt reminder of the power of music to unite, inspire, and heal.

EPISODE CHAPTERS
(0:00:05) - The Authenticity of Heart Hop
(0:12:29) - The Struggle of Vulnerability in Relationships
(0:20:35) - Music Cares and Free Show
(0:28:05) - Underground Music Influence Attitude

EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS
(0:00:05) - The Authenticity of Heart Hop
EKOH's "heart hop" music style connects with fans through authenticity, creative control, and genuine audience connection.
(0:12:29) - The Struggle of Vulnerability in Relationships
Mayday" explores the struggle of vulnerability in relationships, societal pressures on expressing emotions, and the need for authenticity in fostering connections.
(0:20:35) - Music Cares and Free Show
Vans' collaboration with MusicCares for a free show highlights mental health support in the music industry.
(0:28:05) - Underground Music Influence Attitude
Punk rock and underground hip hop share anti-establishment ethos and DIY spirit, embodying authenticity and resistance in music.

EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH FULL SUMMARIES
(0:00:05) - The Authenticity of Heart Hop (12 Minutes)
This chapter welcomes EKOH, an artist whose fans have affectionately dubbed his music style as "heart hop," a testament to his genuine and deeply personal approach to songwriting. I discuss with EKOH the unique relationship he has with his fans, how they understand and connect with the authenticity of his music, and the importance of being true to oneself as an artist. We touch on the idea that specificity in one's own story can lead to a broader relatability, and how creating music that resonates personally can be more fulfilling than trying to please everyone. EKOH shares insights on maintaining creative control over his work, the value of cutting out external noise, and the gratification that comes from connecting with an audience on a genuine level.
(0:12:29) - The Struggle of Vulnerability in Relationships (8 Minutes)
This chapter explores the emotional journey behind the new single "Mayday," a song that captures the struggle of being vulnerable and open in relationships. I share my personal experiences with the fear of judgment and the cycle of pushing down feelings until they erupt in chaos. We reflect on the societal pressures that discourage expressing emotions, especially in men, and the consequent impact on personal and romantic connections. Highlighting the paradox of feeling closest to someone after a crisis, when everything is laid bare, we examine the quest for a partner who truly understands the person inside our head. The discussion also touches on how artistry and public personas can mask our true selves, and the critical need for authenticity in fostering deep, meaningful relationships. Drawing parallels with the character Dexter's journey, we conclude that being fully seen and accepted is crucial for personal growth and happiness.
(0:20:35) - Music Cares and Free Show (8 Minutes)
This chapter reflects on the extraordinary experience of a special show on February 9th, highlighting the collaboration with Vans and the impactful charity work with MusicCares. We explore how Vans' involvement added a unique dimension to the event, creating an inclusive atmosphere where fans gained entry by wearing the brand's footwear, and those without were still able to support a good cause. Emphasizing the importance of mental health support in the music industry, especially amidst the pressures exacerbated by social media and the sheer number of artists today, we discuss the significance of the free show in recognizing and supporting fans who might be struggling financially. The event not only provided free entertainment but also brought to light the community's solidarity, culminating in a fulfilling and memorable experience for both the artist and the attendees, with Vans generously covering the donations to MusicCares.
(0:28:05) - Underground Music Influence Attitude (1 Minutes)
This chapter, we explore the cultural parallels between punk rock, underground hip hop, and their shared ethos of anti-establishmentarianism and DIY spirit. I discuss the significance of attitude in music as a form of resistance and self-expression, reflecting on how these genres embody a commitment to authenticity and speaking truth to power. We touch on the journey from punk to hip hop and the importance of maintaining a 'fuck the system' mentality in creating meaningful art. I thank our guest for their contributions to music and for joining us on "The Adventures of Pipeman," expressing gratitude for the powerful messages and great music they've shared.

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and I'm here with our next guest
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song, but I dig the whole
concept of his music. So let's welcome

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to the show. Echo, how
are you? What's up? Dude?

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Thanks for having me Man appreciate here. I'm glad to be here. What's

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going on? Oh my pleasure.
And the reason I said what I just

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did is because I saw that basically, your fans have labeled you as heart

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pop and I love that. Yeah, me too, especially because I don't

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think I'm savvy enough to have come
up with that on my own. So

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it's actually pretty cool. It is
a really cool label. If you could

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have a label, I mean,
I hate labels, but if you gotta

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have one, that's the one that
have. Yeah, there's anybody. I'm

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pretty against all labeling with everything,
So to have to put a label on

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myself, it would have to be
something that really rains true with me,

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and that one absolutely does. So
I'm pretty lucky to have, you know,

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really dedicated and I'm just kind of
close knit that really cares and really

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digs into what I'm about and kind
of connects with it in their own way

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and then take it and build their
own communities and their own slang words and

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their own terminology and make their own
stuff. And it's really cool. Really

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just for me to be a part
of what they're doing is really awesome.

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And you know what else I love
about it is Okay. So, first

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of all, it says a lot
about your fans of what they think of

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you for them to come up with
that, and that they really from based

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on what I saw about you,
that they really understand who you are as

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an artist. You know, like
sometimes fans they don't they just like the

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music, they don't really get what
the artist is all about. But it's

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like it's almost like they get you. Yeah. I think that's kind of

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like, uh, I mean,
that's the byproduct of if you're honest in

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your music and you write your own
music and you put the time and effort

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into you know, there's nobody with
their hands on this other than me,

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and so everything that comes out is
you know, made by me, and

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you know I have my hands in
everything, and so if you're watching it,

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it is authentic, you know.
And if you're authentic with everything they're

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writing, and you're being honest in
your lyrics and you're really putting yourself out

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there, people will relate. And
that's one thing I've kind of learned more

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about songwriting in general is I used
to think to relate to a broad audience

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you need to speak in broad terms, you know, you need to you

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know, brush and broad strokes.
But the one thing I've learned more and

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more the more I do this is
that the more specific you are to your

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own story, somehow, the more
relatable you've become to more people because it's

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not necessarily even about the details,
it's about the feeling. Yeah, And

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because they can tell you're being real, Like, it's so easy, at

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least for me to tell if an
artist is just you know, plugging in

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some formula or if they're just being
real. Yeah. I mean it's easy

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to kind of phone it in sometimes
if you want to, and in a

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world where you know, not even
not even trying to phone in, but

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there's a lot of people that don't
you know, write their own songs or

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write their own music, or they're
being influenced by you know, a label

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or producers or whatever it may be. I've tried my best throughout my career

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to kind of cut out the noise
and just listen to myself and only make

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what I want to make, and
only make what I like. And yeah,

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it's it's it's a weird thing.
I think it's more of a service

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to the fans to not try and
make what they like. Mm hmm.

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I've also found, you know,
like when you try to please people,

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you're always there's always people you're not
gonna please, Like, you're never gonna

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please everybody, so you might as
well please yourself and then your people will

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come. Yeah, and that that's
one hundred percent man. And you know

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the success of if you find success
in trying to please others, it's not

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even as gratifying. You know,
it doesn't feel was good because in the

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back of your mind, you know
I did that. I wasn't being one

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hundred percent true. It's so much
better if it's like, Okay, this,

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I wrote exactly what I wanted to
write, how I wanted to write

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in and said what I wanted to
say, and it connected. And that's

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a special feeling. I love that. You know. What I also love

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about the label that you have,
because I'm so anti label, is that

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when your fans, especially give you
a label, that that's if you were

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to call it, quote unquote a
genre, it's your genre. It's not

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like being part of a genre.
It's just being you. And like I

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go on tour and I do coverage
of music festivals, and one of the

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funniest things we do when I do
interviews on site is that because I hate

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the genre labels and boxing artists in, I'm like, well, if you

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were to come up with your own
genre that only your band was in,

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what would that genre be Because that's
the only way you're really able to be

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an artist and express yourself, opposed
to oh my god, you know,

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like they're not playing something that I'm
used to hearing like you should be able

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to play whatever you want, you
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you actually ask people. Yeah.
Absolutely, It's so fun too, because,

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like you know, nowadays, there's
so many subgenres micro genres that it's

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kind of getting ridiculous. And I
find that a lot of artists they have

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to go by this like formula.
I call it an algebraic equation to make

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their music, because God forbid they
should just stray a little bit off the

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road. People are like, oh, oh, sellout poser, blah blah

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blah or whatever they want to say, and all the gatekeepers come out and

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say shit. And to me,
like, being an artist means experimenting and

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doing what makes you feel good no
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Yeah, I mean, I couldn't
agree more man. And I think a

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lot of that comes down to labels, you know, pushing people. It's

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easier to sell something that is just
this one thing. It's like, if

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you know what this is, it's
in this box, we can sell this.

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Yeah, And that's always been my
issue with labels as being like,

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well what are you. I'm like, I'm just me, man. You

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know, if I want to make
a rap song, you know, because

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that's how I'm feeling that day,
and that's how I feel I can best

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express the message I'm trying to get
out is through this medium. I'm going

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to do that. If if I'm
feeling like, yo, let's I want

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to make some heavy shit, let's
let's go hard on, you know,

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make a sound like holding your head
or hurt myself or something like that,

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I'm like, that's how I can
get out what I want there. And

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then it's like, Okay, well
we want you to do more of this,

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and my head's always like I can
only make what I can make.

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If that makes it, Oh yeah, that makes total sense. And I

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think that's where artists today, I
think, in some ways are a lot

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luckier. Everybody talks about the negativity
of things like Spotify and TikTok and all

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that and not having the record labels, but as somebody that was very involved

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in the music scene on the Sunset
Strip in the eighties and seeing what these

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record labels did to these bands,
it's like, thank god, artists like

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you can just make their own music, because that's what destroyed genres and destroyed

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bands was the record labels doing that. Yeah, it becomes commercialized and it's

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you know, investors, and it's
all these people that aren't creatives, you

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know, judging the trajectory of an
artistic medium. It's like, how can

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you How are we letting this happen? When did the power come out of

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the hands of the artists and the
creators and go into the hands of just

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the people making decisions with money that
should not be making these decisions. It

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is a detriment to the genre,
to the medium, to the art for

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these people making these decisions. And
it's not everybody. There are people at

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labels that know what they're doing and
have an artistic vision, but it's hard

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to have that for twenty artists under
your belt anyways. And you know it

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now, that's why you see the
resurgence of all these random genres that we

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thought were dead or weren't cool anymore. It's like, no, they were

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always cool. It's just we only
saw what labels were pushing to radio,

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and so we are a slave to
whatever gets put in front of our faces.

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And now when it's like, oh
you can like whatever you want again,

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yeah, now people are like,
oh shit, I have control to

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like what I like. I don't
have to like only what's put in front

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of me. Let's go. That's
one thing I love about Europe when I

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go over to Europe to cover festivals
there is because that's exactly actly what happened.

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There were bands that I thought were
gone and dead for like ten twenty

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years, and I'm like, oh
my god, they were just in Europe

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all this time. You'll see that
a lot with like especially like underground hip

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hop acts like that I grew up
listening to. There was like this is

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like the punk rock of hip hop
back in the day where it was like

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you know, Jedi mind tricks and
already the Ruggyman and artists like you know,

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styles and beyond, artists like this
that don't even tour the US,

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but they go over to Europe and
absolutely crush right, and you're like,

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yes, okay, I'm I'm glad
there's an audience. I knew it was

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somewhere and it's like this is where
it's at, Like I should live here,

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right. You know. It even
holds true for people like me and

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press or doing coverage at all these
music festivals and shows because I do them

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all over the US, I do
them in the UK, I do them

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in Europe. And Europe and UK
they still treat press as if they were

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actually press, whereas here it's like
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individual press so that they can control
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think was that last year we did
a festival out in Finland, and yeah,

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it just felt like going back in
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was just, you know, the
vibe is so cool and the fans are

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so appreciative, and not that they're
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a very different energy. Yeah.
It's also a different feeling when you know,

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English isn't somebody's first language and there
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you're like, no, right wild. Yeah. I always think, man,

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that must feel so good as an
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know, have a conversation with somebody
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they're singing every lyric of your song
and they know what it means. Yeah.

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the most like culture shock and also

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just like whoa moments is going that
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get that far. And I mean
that's you know, more of a testament

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to you know, the Spotify is
and the tiktoks that you know a lot

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of people do have negative things to
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how are you going to do that
before? Before this? Because that that

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puts the hand the power back in
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make something like that happen on our
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So the new single maybe I love
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of I can relate to it too. So maybe you could tell the listeners

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your story behind that song. Oh
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a song for me that's been kind
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It's a song about being unable to
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of my problems I've noticed in personal
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tend to be my inability to open
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somebody in and tell somebody what's really
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let you see the parts of me
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and tell you the thoughts that I
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you know, if I'm insecure or
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here I'm scared or things like this, or all these things that I hold

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in and instead of talking about it, you know, and especially if you're

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in a romantic relationship, your partner
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can sense it, and we'll ask
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me what's going on there? Just
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open up and instead just pushing it
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always the moment when everything comes to
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self destructing in a way with like
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or doing things that are a detriment
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comes out, whether it's a lie
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hurting somebody, by that point it's
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by that time it's the easiest to
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open. And when everybody, when
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easier to open up. And I've
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right after one of those moments,
right you know, that's a good that's

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some good enlightenment right there, because
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of that part of it. Yeah, I think it was like, why

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do I feel closest with the people
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something terrible happened? And it's really
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I can be vulnerable. It's like
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accepted it, so I feel safe
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But and then and then the cycle
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you know, may day, the
fucking ships go going down, and now

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I'm finally ready to open up,
you know, but it has to it

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has to come crashing down first.
That's why I totally relate to this song

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too, because, you know,
growing up for me, you know,

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guys aren't supposed to do that and
express their feelings and just deal with it,

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you know. And the thing is, I always talk about, as

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funny as you say, romantic relationships
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I'm like, I need to find
the person who knows the me inside my

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head because nobody in the world knows
that person. You know, and especially

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when you're an artist like you or
you know, in the public eye,

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people think they know you, but
they don't, you know, and you

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know, most it's like you're always
living in a facade, you know,

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because yes, part of you is
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but that and there's another part of
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or see, because, like you
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you know, society dictates oh blah
blah blah blah blah. You know.

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made a song like this so people can

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see the message, get the message, and maybe future people can change and

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not have to bury that because nothing
good happens from burying that crap. No,

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not at all, man. And
I agree with the you know,

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can I find someone that I can
let really know the person that's that's up

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here, because I feel, you
know, you're like if I told you

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everything I was thinking, you be
like, what the fuck are you?

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Okay? You know all the way. But to be able to find someone

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it's like, yeah, that I
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let see all of you is a
very it's a very risky endeavor. To

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to kind of make you know,
it's not easy to you know, let

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somebody know all these parts and be
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you know, uh, with the
with toxic masculinity and and all these things

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of not opening up or you know, not being sensitive or whatever it may

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be that there's things that are ingrained
in us that you can't do this or

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can't do that. And I remember
I was watching that was that movie Ironclaw,

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you know, and it's like horrible, horrible series of events that happens

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with this family. I'm just like, this is just toxic masculinity on a

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mass scale of like all these guys
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say what's going on? And uh, you know, you push it down

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for long enough and it's You're right, there's nothing. Everything you bury deep

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down will eventually grow, oh you
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it never grows into anything good.
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did you ever see the series Dexter? Yes? Okay, so I kind

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of related to Dexter because he had
four relationships in that series. The first

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one he could only be good Dexter
because that woman would never understand his dark

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passenger, so he always had to
hide that dark passenger. And then the

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second woman, he could never be
good Dexter because she wanted only the bad

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boy, so God forbid anything he
did would be good. She went like

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that third one was temporary because of
a situation. But Hannah McKay was the

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key because Dexter could be everything he
was with her and there was no judgment

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and he could finally be one hundred
percent himself. And then he lost the

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urge to kill people because he could
be one hundred percent. And I think

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that says it all. Yeah,
it's a huge it's a huge thing.

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piece of me, I'm all the
pieces, you know, because there there

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is you know I do have especially
when you when man, I hate saying

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like, when you're in this business, it feels very like pretentious, but

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you know there is a piece of
this that is very put out for the

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world social media, you know,
put on a face, sell your stuff,

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you know, it just it becomes
that because you want people to see

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the art that you've made, and
there is a certain way to get your

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art to people the way that they'll
be able to see it with algorithms and

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stuff like that. So there is
a piece of that game you do have

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to play in a face you do
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that you care about to people so
that they can see it. You know.

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So there is a piece that you
have to put on for and then

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there's a piece you have to put
on when you're around, you know,

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if you're playing live shows. And
then there's the piece when you're just at

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home with your dogs and you have
to go pick up dog shit in the

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backyard. All human being, there's
all these different pieces, and you know,

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having one bad day or having a
good day, neither of these is

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my full identity. It's an encapsulation
of it all, and it's hard to

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remember that there is that is the
whole person, is all of it instead

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of just the little moments. Totally. Now, I also want to talk

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about the special show you did on
the ninth of February, because there were

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two things I thought were really cool
about that. Considering I have like I

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think thirty pairs of Vans nice,
I was totally like, well, that's

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really cool. Vans will be on
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and then you could get in by
just wearing vans like that'd be perfect,

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get in everywhere. And then more
importantly donating to Music Cares because what a

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great, great thing for helping.
What a great charity organization, And you

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know, I think it's something that's
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because there's so much mental illness in
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help that's needed. So I think, not only is the organization way cool,

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but it's way cool that you did
a show that donated money to that

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organization. Yeah, I mean,
that whole thing ended up being on you

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know, on every side of it
was so fulfilling and it is so cool

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to see and very just it was
very moving just to see the whole thing

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because we've been doing this thing with
you know, of signing vans. I've

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been doing that for maybe three years
now and we've signed thousands of pairs of

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vans, and it's a it's a
big part of the community that you know,

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my fans have built is is wearing
vans the shows and getting them signed,

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you know, while I'm performing and
making their own and bringing them to

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shows. And meet and greets and
stuff like that. So it's always been

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such a huge piece and we've always
tried to get Vans attention. Every maybe

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I would say like every quarter,
we would make a video of all the

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highlights of us signing and we tag
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a, well, just throw another
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know, resigned to the fact that
it's not going to happen, but we're

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not going to stop doing what we
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you know, reached out and took
some interest and asked and we're curious

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about what we're doing, and at
that point we just kind of hail married

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in. We're like, okay,
well, let's do a free show.

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fans. Because at the end of
the day, for us, it really

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comes down to, you know,
how can we make this a cool fan

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experience? Yeah, and and and
make something you know, unique for people

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to be a part of. And
once you know, we're like, okay,

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we can make it free, but
what do we do for people aren't

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wearing vans. And I've always been
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so I know what Kevin Lyman does. And I've known about Music Cares for

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a long time, especially during the
pandemic. The Music Cares is doing and

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I think it's incredibly important. And
like you said, I think it's very

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important now, not only because of
the amount of you know, how mental

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illness is actually being you know,
a light shed on it, but there's

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more artists now than there ever have
been. I think that that's a part

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of you know, social media and
being able to do it independently. So

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there's so many more artists now.
There is so much more pressure as an

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artist because there are so many more
artists and the output you have to have

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is so much greater. And with
social media being a piece of that,

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there's even more pressure and there's even
more nuance to the problems that you can

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face as an artist and the mental
gymnastics they have to learn how to do,

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and the pressure and all this kind
of stuff. And none of us

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have health insurance, right, so
because you're chasing a dreaming, you want

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to do this kind of stuff.
And I meant a lot of people don't

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have health insurance, that have regular
jobs. So how important it is to

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support an organization like that, to
me is a no brainer. So the

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fact that we were able to support
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and a lot of the fans that
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a lot of my fan base don't
have you know, I mean,

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and it's not even just my fan
base. A lot of people are struggling

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right now with financially you know,
it's hard. You know, concert tickets

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are not cheap. Buying merches and
cheap, getting a babysitter, getting gas,

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parking, all the kind of stuff
that goes into a night of going

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to a show is not cheap.
And so a lot of the people that

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came out to that show weren't even
wouldn't have been able to come to a

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show if it wasn't free. And
so the fact that they were able to

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come to a show and Vans also
goes, hey, we see you,

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and we see what you're doing and
we support you too. It was like

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a group of people that we're told
like, you're important. I love it,

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important thing as a fan or as

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a human being told like, hey, you're important. Don't forget that.

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I just because you can't afford tickets
to a show doesn't mean you don't deserve

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to go to a show, doesn't
mean you're not important, doesn't mean you

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shouldn't have cool shit, Like we're
going to show you that you are important

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and we're going to give you a
good time on us. And that was

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a cool thing. And the fact
that Vans showed up and then Vans picked

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up the check for music cares.
They're like, we're going to pick up

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the check and pay for it,
so everybody got into show free and if

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you didn't have a pair of Vans
put up the money for music. It

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was just such a cool thing all
around. And it was by far one

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of the most fulfilling experiences I've had
playing a live show ever. It was

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really really fun. Oh, I
so love hearing that. It's so amazing

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because I even think nowadays, I'm
like, I don't even know how teenagers

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go to shows. I went to
shows like almost every day of the week,

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but it was like two dollars for
a ticket, five dollars if I

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wanted a T shirt, you know, and you could scrape the change together

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to go to a show. I
don't even know how teenagers do it nowadays,

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to be honest, neither do I. Man, It's it's definitely different

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now than I used to go to
free shows and parking lots, and those

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were the best I can right,
I can't remember the last you know what

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free show has happened, you know? Or Yeah, tickets just used to

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be twenty bucks if it was like
a really big bill, you know,

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twenty twenty five dollars. Now tickets
are forty five dollars, seventy five dollars.

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It's a lot. Yeah, totally. So let's tell everybody how they

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can reach out to you on the
web. Connect you on socials. Check

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out your new single may Day,
plus all your other music and everything you

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got going on. Yeah, you
can find me on all social platforms.

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It's all at Echo Music. It's
e koh music everywhere, Echo on all

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music platforms, YouTube, wherever,
wherever you listen to music, you can

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find me. Nice any final words
you want to leave our listeners with,

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Oh, man, that's that's I
don't know. I just I mean,

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thank you, man, I just
thanks for tuning in and listening. I

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appreciate anybody who you know is open
minded and willing to give our music a

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shot and listen to something. Maybe
if it doesn't, it might not necessarily

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feel like it's in the genre that
that you normally play around in or listen

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to music in. I hope that
you can relate to the substance, you

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know, sometimes even more than the
genre, because that's that's kind of what

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we're all about. I think it's
so important in me, even myself,

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Like I'm a metal head and a
punk and I dig your music. So

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genre mean crap, Okay, I
mean I grew up on metal, punk

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and hip hop, like underground hip
hop, which when I was growing up

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was like punk rock right exactly,
you know what I mean. So I

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moved from punk rock straight underground hip
hop and was like, this is fuck

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the system. We're doing it on
our own. DIY like we'll say what

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we want, go against the grain, like say it how it is.

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It's like, this is where it's
at. It's the attitude, it's the

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man, it really is. I
do believe that, So I appreciate that

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compliment. Man, thank you anytime, and thanks for giving us such great

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music and great message, and thanks
for being on the Adventures of pipe Man

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anytime, dude. Thank you,
Thank you for listening to the Adventures of

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Pipe Man on W for CUI Radio.