Feb. 24, 2025

Relationships in 2025: Fifty Shades of Christine LaLonde

It’s Motivational Monday on Season 19, Episode 16 of The Adventures of Pipeman.  

Tune in at 1PM ET on 2/24/25 for the live show on W4CY Radio at http://www.w4cy.com.  

You heard of Fifty Shades of Gray, Fifty Shades Darker, and Fifty Shades Free....

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Season 19

It’s Motivational Monday on Season 19, Episode 16 of The Adventures of Pipeman.

Tune in at 1PM ET on 2/24/25 for the live show on W4CY Radio at www.w4cy.com.

You heard of Fifty Shades of Gray, Fifty Shades Darker, and Fifty Shades Free. Well, it’s 2025 and it’s now Fifty Shades of Bullshit with our resident relationship expert Christine LaLonde. We will talk about the insanity of online dating, the hookup generation, communication skills or lack thereof, and maybe even some psychic (could be a psychic reading or two for FREE as well) and psychological evaluation of relationships, situationships, open and poly relationships, virtual relationships, scammers, catfishing, and other nuances and insanity of the complicated world of interactions with other humans in 2025. Let’s also discuss Pipeman seeing a resurgence of Matchmaking. And what’s with all the labels? We have every label in the universe now to define a relationship.

Let’s also play a game of Fact or Fiction on the show. Pipeman will pose a question and our guest and PipeNuts will discuss whether it actually happens in relationships these days or is just some bullcrap talk.

Pipeman is back from a weekend of events on The Pipeman Radio Tour, and we are going to talk about Beach Polo on Singer Island within view of the PipeCave plus The Lake Worth Street Painting Festival. And Pipeman has announcements for an evolution (wink wink) of newly approved stops on The Pipeman Radio Tour having to with business, broadcasting, and podcasting.

Want to WIN! Watch and listen for announcements about Louder Than Life and for your chance to WIN tickets to Sonic Temple, Welcome To Rockville, Rock The Country, Rock The South, Inkcarceration, Bourbon & Beyond, and more for in 2025 all on The Pipeman Radio Tour. DM @pipemanradio on socials to be entered.

What national day is it? Rebel will you know what Special day it is today that relates to Business and Personal Growth! Pipeman likes Twin Peaks Day. Relationships on Twin Peaks Day make so much sense.

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man Yo, Happy Monday, Motivational Monday. Here on the Adventures

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dot com. We're gonna have a special guest, but she's

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say before you hit live. Bring them on. Literally. I

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you started yet because you went so fast. Because our

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guest isn't here, So take me out of a studio, rebel.

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You talk about what day it is, and I'll be

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start it regardless because we didn't have notification.

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But today, first of all, welcome to the adventures of

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Thank you for joining us here.

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And what is today?

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Oh my goodness, well, let's see. Today is National.

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Tortilla chip Torttila?

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Am I saying that right?

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Tortilla tortilla?

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And I guess American tortilla National tortilla chip Day.

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Now.

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I went to the store and I was going to

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bring some tortilla chips, but I didn't have anything to

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do with them, so I was gonna get to Rito's.

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And I don't think that's the same thing.

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No, it is not good thing.

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I didn't get them. It's also National Trading Card Day,

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you guys, Oh my goodness, you can remember trading cards

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like Pokemon cards and magic It is still a thing,

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and they're worth quite a lot of money for some

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of them.

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Actually.

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It's also hey, some of you probably have a favorite

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one national bar. It's world sorry, world bartender day. How

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many of you have a favorite bartender?

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You might need to get some help any modern day therapists.

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Modern day therapist, Wait a minute, Wait a minute, you

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say need help? Okay, but I don't drink, want fix us.

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I don't drink, and I have favorite bartenders. As a

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matter of fact, When you know, when I was living

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more in Wellington and said just studio in Wellington, I

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knew all the bartenders that might have been because thing

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two was an alcoholic, I'm not sure, but no, seriously,

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you know I would get water or a cranberry juice

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and tip them like fifty bucks and they were my

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best friends. And I'm saying that because you need to

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learn how to treat bartenders servers. I just had this

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whole argument with somebody, and I think it's something we'll

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talk about on the pipe peeve on Wednesday or maybe

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even tomorrow, because I has to do with travel. But

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there's a lot going on with tipping, and there's a

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lot of holes when it comes to tipping, and there's

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a lot of people that don't understand. And if you're

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on a date, since we're talking about relationships, today, if

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you're on a date, okay, then if you're a cheap tipper,

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that doesn't look good. I'm just saying, tip your bartenders,

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tip your servers, because they don't even make minimum wage.

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Everybody's arguing about memum wage. They make like a dollar

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an hour okay or something stupid like that.

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the tips should be reflected on the level of service,

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because sometimes they're like very very nasty with you, or

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they don't they're not like they don't want to give

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you what you want, they're in a bad mood.

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I believe that too, And I believe you know, if

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you're in the service industry, you should have a serve

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certain personality because people are assholes and you're going to

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have to deal with those assholes. Okay, But in the

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same token, that's like saying awesome. So, like I think

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tips on the way up above a minimum Yes, if

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servers really bad where you would get a refund as store, yes,

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they did their job with if you were to grade

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them a D or a C, and so you lowered

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their their hourly rate, you wouldn't be able to do

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that as a boss. You'd either have to get rid

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of them or continue paying them the same rate. So

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my point is there, if somebody's a total asshole, totally

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agree with you. If service is horrific, totally agree with you.

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And I agree with you. If service is perfect on

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the way up, okay, So give more of a tip.

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If they're better, give more of a tip, if they

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go out of their way, you know, give more of

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a tip if they're super nice to you. But you

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should get what they say. And I never tipped this

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unless somebody's bad. The minimum is fifteen percent. So here's

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my thing. If somebody's bad, not super bad and not

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like I want to punch him in the face, bad

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and bad, they get fifteen percent. But my dad taught

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me something a long time ago that you would love

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one Eddy and Casino in Lank City, and we had

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this server. He was about I don't know, five foot

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nothing with the same kind of attitude. He was like

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the Chihuahua of humans. And wow, I mean this dude

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was like the worst server in history. I remember it

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so clearly. I was a little clit kid, that's how

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much of an impression it made on me. I mean,

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and he was a total asshole to my dad, total asshole.

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So my dad, who was always a big tipper and

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taught me how to tip, he goes, let me teach

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you something else. Now he goes, met, here's here's Christine.

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Bring her on.

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Huh.

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Sorry, I play of a story, but it's okay. It's okay.

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You're here and that's all that counts. And we didn't

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start without you. We just started without okay, so we

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didn't start with your part yet. But I got this

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just story. Somehow we got into tipping. I may have

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relayed to relationships by saying, if you go out on

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a date and you give a cheap tip, it's going

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to be a reflection and probably won't get a second date.

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But okay, we were on some other discussion that I'm

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going to finish, So back to you one. Okay, and

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you rebel and you can listen to Christine. Okay, but

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my dad, you didn't hear the whole thing, so you

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don't have the context. But so we were sitting at

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legxy as I was saying, and my dad always taught

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me how to be a great tipper. Uh, but he

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taught me something new this night when I was a

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little kid. We're in I think it was Trump Plaza

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actually or something like that, and then this snotty server

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that I was probably ou't though ten, and I wanted

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to punch him in the face myself. Okay, and my

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dad was an alcoholic gambler, so we're lucky he didn't

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punch him in the face. Okay, because I've seen that happen.

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But okay, this dude did deserve to get punched in

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the face, just saying so my dad. Afterwards, he says,

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let me teach you something. If you don't like the

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server service and they're a total asshole like this person,

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don't not tip them. Okay. So a lot of people

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will just not tip at all. He said, tip them

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a penny that way they know you didn't forget.

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I've done that before.

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Okay. Funny, see, well we might be related one I

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don't know.

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And it wasn't even like, you know how like they

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have the card thing was like you can add the

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tip on the receipt. No, it was an actual penny.

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Nice. Okay, that's a rare occasion that you would ever

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use that.

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I've only done it once.

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Yeah, exactly. I've never had to do it myself, but

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I was witnessed to my dad, to whom my dad

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would give somebody two hundred dollars tip fifty dollars bill. Okay,

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that's where I learned it. I rarely drink, okay, and

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I go to bars in order of water and tip,

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like fifty bucks right off the bat. That server will

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give me anything I want after that. In fact, going

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back to relationships, before I introduce our guests. Okay, Thing two,

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by the way, so you know, Christine, you might not

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remember from last time, but Thing one and Thing two

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are my ex wives. Okay. If you're new to listening

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to show Thing one and even Thing one, if you

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ever meet Thing one, she will introduce herself. You probably

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know me as Thing one. Okay, and so but Thing two.

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Both of them were alcoholics, but Thing two was she's

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a drink like fifteen margaritas in night, okay, every night,

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not a rare occasion, not a special occasion, like just

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if we went to the bar, okay, and and then

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wondered why she had colitis. But that's another story. Okay. So,

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but what used to happen is because I was friends

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with all these as bartenders in Wellington because I tipped

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them so much all the time, without even ordering a drink.

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My bill always always came out to eight dollars for

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fifteen margarinas. Eight dollars, you know, because listen, people don't

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be cheap with the server. You want to be cheap

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with the restaurant, Go right ahead. But you know what,

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I'd rather give the server than the restaurant any day

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of a week. And we're going to talk more about

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this probably on Wednesday on what the fuck Wednesday on

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the Adventures conference pipe Man, because something happened this weekend

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in that realm. But now we're on Motivational Monday, so

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there's no what the fuck's here will make may they

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were there will be okay because we have the renowned

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expert of bullshit okay, world renowned expert of bullshit okay.

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And we're not talking just regular bullshit okay. This is

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bullshit and dating fifty shades of bullshit. So I'd like

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to welcome to the show Christine land.

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Ah, thank you. What an intro.

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I know right right, I just thought about it right now,

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like I mean, know what else is gonna say till.

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Right there fly on the fly what a man?

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Okay? And you know the pipe nuts over here that

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that swamp not over there. She probably has very different

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tating stories than you or I do because she's in

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the Bayou swamps of Louisiana.

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Okay, and she's got great ones. I love her.

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Yeah, they still do something in the woods with pigs.

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I don't know. But anyway, And then we have studio

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that up there. Want one who you know, wan, but

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you don't really know my face usually okay's only on

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your show person behind the scenes. And so one will

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give his he's are you're are resin expert in bullshit

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dating and he's our resin expert in Hispanic dating for today?

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Well, I have some uh, I have some experience in

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Hispanic dating too.

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Me too, Okay, but I think I have a better

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experience from what I understand, Okay. Like so, the reason

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why a gringo like me gets a lot of Latina

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women is because they're so sick of the machiesmo blah

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blah blah blah. Do they know they have pipe man?

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But that's besides the point, okay. And then on your side,

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what in your experience, what has your experience been.

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With the Latin men.

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Yeah, and let's see, we'll ask one if that's how

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he is. Ah.

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I fucking love dark man, I think. Okay, Hispanic men

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are amazing. They're just well, you know. I don't like

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the chizmo macho thing that you're talking about, but I

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do like the solid confidence in an Asian in an

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Asian man, oh my god, and Hispanic man, he's.

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All over the place.

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I don't care.

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She's the world worn now, expert in dating from every culture.

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Right, I have dated every culture, so I am. I

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am good to go there.

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Nice, you're ahead of me. I have it on my list,

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but I still have a few more to check off.

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Well, you have a culture bucket list for dating all.

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Two hundred and sixty two hundred and six countries. Yes,

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at least one from every country in the world is

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my goal before I die.

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All right, there we go. That's a goal.

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I'm not about one ninety seven. There you go. And

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that includes thing too because she was British. Okay, so

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one is what she's saying. True. Are you guys like amazing?

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I can't speak for that. I can only speak for

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the Latina women. Are you guys amazing? The date.

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Here's what I can say. Latino men are very passionate.

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M yeah, I think all Latinos, both men and women are.

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That's what I love about them. Just passionate about life

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in general.

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Way.

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Well okay, so can you give us more details on

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that please, As our roving reporter reporting live from our

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studios in Wellington, which I was going to say our

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studios in Mexico, but it's more Argentina and Wellington. There's

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more Argentina Brazilian, you know, like that in Wellington. So

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go ahead.

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Here's what I can say. You know, I don't know

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about like the machismore thing. I think that's more like

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older generations of Latino men. I think the new the

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new ones, you know, like the new generations are starting

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to sway away from that and being more you know,

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aligned with their partners. That's what I'm seeing. That's what

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I'm experiencing, like you know, definitely like in my own family,

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like the men before me were very like fair traditional,

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very like you know, men hold the position in the

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family and no one can take it away from them,

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whereas like now that I see, like my cousins, myself,

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like everyone else's more like we are equal partners and

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we should try to work together to have a better

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life rather than hey, this is your line, do not

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cross it.

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See I love That's why I asked you because and

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that's why we love having one on the show, because

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I'm so sick of hearing stuff from the old people

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that don't know what they're talking about today, like that

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doesn't exist, and.

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Oh you mean our current government.

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Oh sorry, something like that. Yes, but that's for Wednesday

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when we talked about the fifty first state. We talked

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about that last week and missed that episode where we

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made fun of the fact we had a Canadian on

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the show so we could talk about the fifty first state.

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I can't even believe since you brought that up, I

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just have to say it real quick. After that hockey game,

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the White House Press Secretary had to put that in

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her speech like that was uncalled for, stupid, unprofessional, And

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I'm sorry, but stop poking fun at our neighbors who

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you're just missing off, okay, because they're never going to

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become the fifty first state. And that's going to be

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more on Wednesday though. But one, I'm so happy you're

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here to give us the younger perspective because things are changing,

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thankfully in that department and how men treat women, because

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you know what, it's hard on us nice guys when

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you have a bunch of jerk off machismos that you know,

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get get in your way that you want to punch

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them out, but the women are just like ooh, because

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that's what That was my experience with Thing one at

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least and many others, but Thing one for sure is like,

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you know, you're too nice. I'm gonna break up with you.

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Yeah, I've had that discussion before, like that whole like

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I don't know, you're really nice, but you're not the

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one for me. Like I'm looking for a nice guy,

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but you're too nice, you know.

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Yeah, I have run an edge. Yeah, I've had the

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too nice all my life. But there's a happy medium, right, Christine, Yeah, I.

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Think that you know, you guys say, you know you've

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heard too nice all your life. It's because you know,

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women as they're younger don't really appreciate and understand what

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nice means. That that's they've got the wrong conception of it.

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They think that nice means that you're just going to

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roll over and let them walk all over you and

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just like bow to them, and they're like what they

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want to challenge, They want a control, they want a

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man to step up and you know, really be I

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don't I don't want to say dominant or controlling, but

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you know, in a sense, you know, stronger than the

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woman because a lot of women exactly so I think started.

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Okay, because Rebel is the epitome of like what we're

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talking about right now. She's from Louisiana, so she you know,

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she likes people that are She's probably like Thing one.

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The thing one was like, you know, I want to go.

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It's going to wear the tool about on on his

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wish and do work on the house, and that is cool.

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Somebody sent her, well here's the reference to it. It was,

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I'll give you the rest of the statement. Instead of

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somebody taking me to Paris for the weekend for her anniversary,

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Like I am not kidding you. I would have rather

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you put a tool belt on and be somebody and

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went out of mode the lawn while I paid somebody

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to mowde the lawn and took her to Paris for

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the weekend for her anniversary.

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Knowing the partner that you're with, I mean, maybe she

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didn't want Paris. I don't want to go to Paris.

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Well knew Cofence I would.

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So well, I think there's more to go ahead, Christy Hardy.

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The thing that is, though, is that when women are younger,

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they don't know what they want. They haven't been seasoned yet,

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they haven't.

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Experienced young forty years old. I'm just curious.

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Well, some women grow something.

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And she said that, you know, she was referring to

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the past like she already knew it was thing. This thing.

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Pipe Man almost called you another name.

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I know.

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You're supposed to.

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Be here for motivational Monday.

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Yeah, but I'm still pipe Man.

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This is the thing. People get upset and freaked out that,

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oh this person said I wasn't this, or I was that,

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or I was too much this. All that is is

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signs that they're not the right person in the universe,

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is saying, hey, this is not the right person for you.

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Keep moving. They're gonna tell you. So you're gonna find.

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They don't tell you though, right, right, nat.

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Because some of you don't know, right can they tell

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you what they don't know?

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Okay, so you're telling me, Rebel, you could be married

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to somebody for twelve years and not know that you

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don't want to be with somebody that's romantic, even though

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every guy you did before and every guy you dated

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after was not romantic. You wouldn't know that.

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Did you ever experienced it before? It's all of a

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matter of what you think you want. It's human nature

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to want what you don't have.

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That's it takes you twelve years to figure that out.

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Some people can't find it ever.

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Yeah, that's true. I agree with that, and they get it.

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They don't want it because that's not what they want

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it because they still don't have the definition of what

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they actually want.

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Well, that's where Christine is right, because I'm smarter now

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that I'm older that like, in like literally anywhere from

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thirty seconds to three dates, I know this person's not

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for me, Whereas when I was younger it was like,

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or what you think you want? Because like what I

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think I want now is not what I want when

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I was younger, because like you know, I ready returned

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that damage merchandise.

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So my experience, and I think Christine can probably give

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us a better understanding and more in depth perspective on this.

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In my experiences, it wasn't so much about like I

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don't know what I want. It was more so done

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in a way that it felt more like I don't

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think I deserved this, so I should be with like

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something more toxic.

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That is a big one for all the males and

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females for sure.

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Well people don't understand that with life there is things

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that's going to happen to us, trauma, uh, crazy experiences

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that shape what we think and how we feel. And

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we live in a society where people are growing up

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not having self worth. They don't care about themselves, they

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don't love themselves, they don't even know how to. So

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when someone comes along and is really good to them,

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what they call nice, what they call you know, just considerate, sweet, loving, caring.

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But you know, I'm pretty fucking sure you guys have

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your own edges. They just don't see that because they

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don't think that it's not.

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The same it's not the same age as somebody that's

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compatible to you. Because I always did have an edge,

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like I'm a metal head okay and a punker okay.

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But you know, I also going back to certain things

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and the difference between my generation Wan's generation is I

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grew up with how you're supposed to treat a woman,

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but I don't know that was necessarily to write information that.

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I think they're more clear about it nowadays of how

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that is. And I'm big into communication. I always say

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proper communication. There's a big difference between communication proper communication.

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And we are different. You know, men are from more

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as women are from Venus. It's definitely true, you know,

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but there's also exceptions, like in my marriage to Thing one,

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I was more Venusian, she was more Martian. And you know,

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that's something you have to understand too, is not just

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a blanket generic statement, but that person specifically, what are

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they like? And that's where the biggest problem is because

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I think in the case with Thing one, and she

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would probably say it too, it's not that she didn't

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figure it out, it's that it's and the deserve probably,

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but also the fact of you know, you there's two things.

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One is you kind of think you you're gonna be

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what you think they want you to be, and then

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that doesn't hold too well because it's not really you,

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or it's something you want to be or you want

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to have. That happens too, And then there's also the

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case of the fact of like Christine said, is there

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has to be there has to be a little bit

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of an edge somewhere. And sometimes guys when they're totally

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smitten for women, they forget that they were an asshole,

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okay to be just to be blunt about It's like

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they meet certain people and they forget to be that

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confident guy and they end up that weak guy. That's

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a turnoff. It happens both ways too, if women, like

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even if you're the nice guy, if women are too

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nice to you, you either a are kind of grossed

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out by it or you don't trust them, And that's

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the same thing you won't trust a too nice guy.

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Sometimes I think it's.

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A matter of perspective, you know, in both ways, Like

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for example, for a guy, it's you know, or for

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a woman it's if the other person's too nice, if

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they're treating you right and you feel like you don't

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deserve that, then some people say like, oh, I don't

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deserve that, I should gravitate to it something more toxic,

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when they should be using the perspective of I don't

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deserve this, what can I do to earn it? Right?

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And then we go into the whole you know, man

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being a leader and stuff, you know, like, like Rebel said,

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a real man, I think for a man, like at

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least for myself, I know that I'm not a good

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leader at everything. So if I know that she's better

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at some areas in life than myself, then I'll let

452
00:26:16.599 --> 00:26:19.039
her lead in those areas. I think as a man,

453
00:26:19.240 --> 00:26:23.279
it's more beneficial to the relationship than to say, no,

454
00:26:23.480 --> 00:26:26.079
I'm the leader, even if I take us down, Like

455
00:26:26.160 --> 00:26:28.960
even if the ship goes down with me, I'm taking

456
00:26:29.079 --> 00:26:31.160
us there, you know, instead of saying that, I'm saying,

457
00:26:31.160 --> 00:26:33.240
you know, you take the lead on this one. I'm

458
00:26:33.279 --> 00:26:35.160
out of my depth. It's all you.

459
00:26:35.720 --> 00:26:38.799
I think. It's also exciting when a dude is like,

460
00:26:39.519 --> 00:26:42.400
not super nice guy to a woman.

461
00:26:42.640 --> 00:26:46.160
What do you think, Christine, I'm in a completely different

462
00:26:46.200 --> 00:26:47.319
place in my life now.

463
00:26:47.599 --> 00:26:50.400
Ida that happens.

464
00:26:50.640 --> 00:26:55.359
Well, yeah, because of the This is the thing. When

465
00:26:56.119 --> 00:27:00.680
I was younger, I didn't know what goodness was. I

466
00:27:00.839 --> 00:27:06.559
come from an abusive background, so for me, toxic was

467
00:27:06.759 --> 00:27:10.839
the norm, and kindness and being good to me and

468
00:27:11.799 --> 00:27:15.079
catering to me and being a man to me was terrifying.

469
00:27:15.200 --> 00:27:17.519
I had no idea what it meant. So as I

470
00:27:17.680 --> 00:27:21.720
grew in my life and learned and changed and got

471
00:27:21.839 --> 00:27:26.640
self help and self love and self respect and grew

472
00:27:26.720 --> 00:27:29.920
within myself. That's when I started to realize toxic was

473
00:27:30.680 --> 00:27:37.079
just toxic. And kindness and generosity and communication and the

474
00:27:37.200 --> 00:27:40.720
things that Wan is saying is you know, you put

475
00:27:40.880 --> 00:27:43.119
in one hundred percent in the relationship, and I put

476
00:27:43.119 --> 00:27:45.759
in one hundred percent of the relationship, and we ebb

477
00:27:45.839 --> 00:27:49.240
and flow where we need to. That's a solid, real

478
00:27:49.400 --> 00:27:55.039
relationship with a well rounded person. But a lot of

479
00:27:55.079 --> 00:27:58.480
people can't get there. They're so hung and clutching that

480
00:27:58.720 --> 00:28:02.400
past and that trauma they cannot look past it a

481
00:28:02.440 --> 00:28:03.000
lot of time.

482
00:28:03.279 --> 00:28:05.880
Or it's a comfort zone or it's a comfort zone

483
00:28:05.880 --> 00:28:10.000
because like in what Wan said, you know, I think

484
00:28:10.200 --> 00:28:13.559
is absolutely true and I see it with my brother,

485
00:28:13.720 --> 00:28:16.160
my brother, my sister in law. I have been married

486
00:28:16.200 --> 00:28:19.599
for like forty years. They still look like they're more

487
00:28:19.680 --> 00:28:22.519
in love now than in day one. They're still all like,

488
00:28:23.880 --> 00:28:28.359
you know, hold hands, they do everything. You know, they

489
00:28:28.440 --> 00:28:31.799
have the same hobbies, but they also have individual stuff,

490
00:28:31.880 --> 00:28:33.640
like they both love going to gym and they go

491
00:28:33.799 --> 00:28:37.160
actually to separate gyms because they do separate things, but

492
00:28:37.799 --> 00:28:42.039
they also join in that loving of the gym. They

493
00:28:42.200 --> 00:28:46.920
run a business together, and to Wan's point, she has

494
00:28:47.000 --> 00:28:50.400
her strengths, he has his, and that's what they focus on.

495
00:28:50.559 --> 00:28:52.920
He handles one part of business, she handles the other

496
00:28:53.039 --> 00:28:57.079
part of business. Now, to your point, because I'm more

497
00:28:57.200 --> 00:29:02.359
on your page, Christine, like I come from serious toxicity,

498
00:29:02.680 --> 00:29:06.039
and you know, the fact of the matter is is

499
00:29:06.160 --> 00:29:10.640
that I got my beliefs kind of from like La

500
00:29:10.799 --> 00:29:14.279
La land on television type of thing. You know too,

501
00:29:15.000 --> 00:29:20.119
So that prince Charming syndrome is actually not a great thing.

502
00:29:20.279 --> 00:29:23.160
That's what I learned later in life. Okay, So when

503
00:29:23.200 --> 00:29:28.440
I was younger, like I used to like, it made

504
00:29:28.480 --> 00:29:31.440
me feel good to be that way, not just with women,

505
00:29:31.559 --> 00:29:35.480
with everybody. It's like that being a savior the code

506
00:29:35.559 --> 00:29:40.039
dependent bullshit. But here's what I was really doing is

507
00:29:40.119 --> 00:29:42.400
I was covering up for all the things I was

508
00:29:42.680 --> 00:29:46.880
not getting from anybody else and giving it to other people.

509
00:29:47.319 --> 00:29:50.920
And because you're so focused on that, you forget about

510
00:29:50.960 --> 00:29:54.400
what you're missing until you end up alone in a

511
00:29:54.480 --> 00:29:57.680
situation where people should be around you, and that's when

512
00:29:57.759 --> 00:30:02.359
you finally figure out that, Wow, all these years i've

513
00:30:02.359 --> 00:30:05.559
been I haven't even noticed that because I've been doing

514
00:30:05.720 --> 00:30:09.240
for everybody else, and then you start to learn that

515
00:30:10.359 --> 00:30:13.400
you know, maybe it's not so healthy to be that way,

516
00:30:13.799 --> 00:30:17.440
Maybe it is more healthy to like, as one is

517
00:30:17.519 --> 00:30:21.279
putting it, the way I read it is the instruction manual,

518
00:30:21.680 --> 00:30:24.799
you know, like knowing each other and talking to each

519
00:30:24.839 --> 00:30:30.079
other and figuring things out and who's good at what

520
00:30:30.599 --> 00:30:33.440
and like kind of that proper communication.

521
00:30:34.000 --> 00:30:35.319
But the changes as you go.

522
00:30:35.559 --> 00:30:38.519
It's not a one set contract in the beginning, and

523
00:30:38.640 --> 00:30:42.640
it never changes. You have to change and grow with

524
00:30:42.759 --> 00:30:47.079
each other or it's going to be staled out installed anyway.

525
00:30:47.359 --> 00:30:49.839
So that's true for everything in life, right, I mean,

526
00:30:49.920 --> 00:30:55.359
like especially with relationships. Relationships require work. It's hard, it's

527
00:30:55.440 --> 00:30:59.680
everyday work. The work never ends. But as long as

528
00:30:59.680 --> 00:31:02.559
you're working together, like there's nothing that's going to stop you.

529
00:31:03.119 --> 00:31:07.799
What I've seen like recently in relationships in general is,

530
00:31:08.160 --> 00:31:10.440
you know, it becomes kind of like a fight for power.

531
00:31:11.119 --> 00:31:13.960
Whereas old school relationships the man holds all the power,

532
00:31:14.079 --> 00:31:17.000
the woman has to submit and she doesn't have a vote,

533
00:31:18.039 --> 00:31:21.279
and the new generation the extreme with the new generation

534
00:31:21.920 --> 00:31:25.519
is more like they're fighting to see who holds the power.

535
00:31:25.640 --> 00:31:27.480
The woman wants all the power, the man wants all

536
00:31:27.480 --> 00:31:30.440
the power, and it's a never ending conflict where it

537
00:31:30.480 --> 00:31:33.319
should be. You know, we're sharing the power. If you're

538
00:31:33.319 --> 00:31:35.720
stronger than me in certain areas, then you take the

539
00:31:35.799 --> 00:31:38.400
lead or I'll take the lead in these other areas.

540
00:31:38.440 --> 00:31:41.079
You know, it's not about who holds the power, but

541
00:31:41.240 --> 00:31:44.960
rather than if we come together and we work together,

542
00:31:46.279 --> 00:31:48.119
you know where can we go from here? Because you

543
00:31:48.200 --> 00:31:49.960
guys have the same goal, right, like if you have

544
00:31:50.039 --> 00:31:52.559
a posting goals and you shouldn't be together first of all.

545
00:31:53.000 --> 00:31:57.839
And here's the extreme of that. Okay, this is one

546
00:31:57.839 --> 00:32:02.960
of the things today that confuses guys. I can't tell

547
00:32:03.000 --> 00:32:05.759
you how many times it's been. Many times I have

548
00:32:05.880 --> 00:32:08.319
held a door open for a woman walking into a

549
00:32:08.440 --> 00:32:11.680
restaurant or a store and it offends them and got

550
00:32:11.880 --> 00:32:17.720
yelled at threat it offered to light a cigarette, where

551
00:32:17.759 --> 00:32:21.000
I've offered to light a cigarette. And it's like, here's

552
00:32:21.039 --> 00:32:23.119
the answer, you got. I can mine it myself. I

553
00:32:23.160 --> 00:32:25.480
can outen the door myself. Well, of course you can.

554
00:32:25.640 --> 00:32:27.480
I didn't think you're incapable.

555
00:32:27.759 --> 00:32:29.880
I got you on this, I got you this, I

556
00:32:29.960 --> 00:32:30.920
got you on this ragment.

557
00:32:31.079 --> 00:32:34.359
Okay, let's hear from the expert of bullshit. Because I

558
00:32:34.440 --> 00:32:36.039
think that's bullshit.

559
00:32:36.680 --> 00:32:41.160
Listen, a lot of don't forget that every person is

560
00:32:41.359 --> 00:32:45.759
shaped and formed their opinions, their way of being by

561
00:32:45.880 --> 00:32:49.200
their past, how they've been treated, what they've gone through.

562
00:32:49.319 --> 00:32:52.240
We don't know what those women have gone through. Maybe

563
00:32:52.400 --> 00:32:57.920
they've been sexually assaulted. Maybe they you resemble somebody that

564
00:32:58.079 --> 00:33:00.920
has done something in their life to them. We don't

565
00:33:01.000 --> 00:33:03.559
know what another person has been through, So when we

566
00:33:03.720 --> 00:33:07.240
do something kind for them, remember they may never have

567
00:33:07.440 --> 00:33:09.960
had somebody be kind to them. So when they have

568
00:33:10.119 --> 00:33:13.400
a door open, sometimes women are like, wait, you know what,

569
00:33:14.000 --> 00:33:16.440
I don't need you to be that person for me.

570
00:33:16.640 --> 00:33:19.079
I need to be that person myself. But they don't

571
00:33:19.119 --> 00:33:22.880
know how to communicate that any better. So we have

572
00:33:23.039 --> 00:33:25.440
to We have to give people grace. And that's the

573
00:33:25.519 --> 00:33:28.200
problem with this world right now. We think that if

574
00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:31.319
other people don't believe, think and feel and behave the

575
00:33:31.359 --> 00:33:34.720
way we expect them to, then there's a problem. But

576
00:33:34.880 --> 00:33:37.359
this is the thing we need to remember that somebody

577
00:33:37.519 --> 00:33:39.880
has gone through something. It could have been five minutes

578
00:33:39.960 --> 00:33:45.279
before Dean sorry pipe man, sheesh, it could have been

579
00:33:45.440 --> 00:33:48.880
five minutes before that somebody was a real fucking dick

580
00:33:49.000 --> 00:33:50.880
to them, and it could have been a man, it

581
00:33:50.880 --> 00:33:52.759
could have been a woman, it could have been anybody.

582
00:33:52.880 --> 00:33:54.480
But then they turn around and are like, you know what,

583
00:33:54.680 --> 00:33:58.119
I can do it for myself. And I get that.

584
00:33:58.400 --> 00:34:01.200
So what I tried to do my life every day.

585
00:34:01.440 --> 00:34:04.200
I allow men to open doors for me, be kind

586
00:34:04.319 --> 00:34:08.119
and be all these things, and I very very specifically

587
00:34:08.559 --> 00:34:10.679
look them in the eye and say thank you so much.

588
00:34:10.800 --> 00:34:13.760
That was very kind, and I truly appreciate it. I

589
00:34:13.840 --> 00:34:16.920
say it constantly over and over and over, because we

590
00:34:17.119 --> 00:34:20.880
do need people who are healed and healing to try

591
00:34:21.000 --> 00:34:24.800
to exten that. As a quick example, just really quick.

592
00:34:25.719 --> 00:34:28.719
I was out one day and this person treated me

593
00:34:28.960 --> 00:34:32.079
so bad and it just did nothing but set me off.

594
00:34:32.480 --> 00:34:34.800
I was pissed. I was irritated. I thought, what the

595
00:34:34.920 --> 00:34:38.440
hell I walk into the bank. I hate going into

596
00:34:38.480 --> 00:34:41.320
the bank anyway. There's never enough tailors, there's too long

597
00:34:41.360 --> 00:34:43.920
of the lines, people are rude, whatever. So I get

598
00:34:44.000 --> 00:34:46.360
up to the counter and they were not doing for

599
00:34:46.519 --> 00:34:50.199
me what I needed. And it's like it wasn't difficult,

600
00:34:50.639 --> 00:34:54.400
please just hear me. And I was really snippy and

601
00:34:54.599 --> 00:34:57.800
rude and short to the teller woman because some fucking

602
00:34:57.880 --> 00:35:01.800
asshole just did it to me. I saw the look

603
00:35:01.840 --> 00:35:03.920
on her face and I stopped and I went, oh

604
00:35:04.000 --> 00:35:07.320
my god. I literally started shaking, and I said, I

605
00:35:07.519 --> 00:35:12.719
am incredibly sorry. Please understand that I need to apologize

606
00:35:12.760 --> 00:35:17.039
to you. My bullshit piled onto you, and you're about

607
00:35:17.119 --> 00:35:20.480
to go spread garbage into the world because I just

608
00:35:20.599 --> 00:35:23.280
gave you garbage. So I had to stop and say

609
00:35:23.360 --> 00:35:27.000
to her, someone who's treated me shitty, I took it personally.

610
00:35:27.519 --> 00:35:31.159
I rolled it onto you and my apologies. And I've

611
00:35:31.239 --> 00:35:36.079
never seen someone brighter, smile try to help me more

612
00:35:36.199 --> 00:35:40.119
than what she was. And it's something that people don't

613
00:35:40.159 --> 00:35:42.920
realize that, you know, we think everybody is going to

614
00:35:43.039 --> 00:35:46.159
think the same way as us because we're logical. We think,

615
00:35:46.440 --> 00:35:49.840
you know, on a different space. But that's coming from

616
00:35:49.920 --> 00:35:52.280
people who are healed, and most of the world is

617
00:35:52.360 --> 00:35:55.840
not healed, and Nora knows that they need to heal.

618
00:35:56.480 --> 00:35:59.159
They think that they're just within their bubble and everybody

619
00:35:59.239 --> 00:36:02.039
else is treating them this way, but they don't realize

620
00:36:02.119 --> 00:36:05.079
that they are also projecting out what they're getting.

621
00:36:05.599 --> 00:36:09.519
And some people gave them people license to be assholes,

622
00:36:09.559 --> 00:36:14.719
which I am so freaking sick of. Like, I mean, listen,

623
00:36:15.239 --> 00:36:17.840
you can have your opinions. You can have your beliefs.

624
00:36:17.880 --> 00:36:20.239
That doesn't mean you have to be an asshole about it,

625
00:36:20.440 --> 00:36:24.000
about every single thing. If I say something's blue and

626
00:36:24.119 --> 00:36:26.760
you're like, you're a full community, it's really like blue.

627
00:36:26.840 --> 00:36:28.960
You don't really know what you're talking about. That's the

628
00:36:29.039 --> 00:36:31.480
world we live in right now. That's what we need

629
00:36:31.559 --> 00:36:35.480
to heal. They I'll tell you the story Christine about

630
00:36:37.039 --> 00:36:42.639
having to do with this same thing of forget it,

631
00:36:43.000 --> 00:36:43.559
we'll move on.

632
00:36:45.320 --> 00:36:49.559
We see this is the thing Dean, a lot a

633
00:36:49.639 --> 00:36:51.159
lot of du pipe man.

634
00:36:51.280 --> 00:36:51.440
One.

635
00:36:51.599 --> 00:36:53.639
Hell, I'm just never going to call you that other

636
00:36:53.760 --> 00:36:54.239
name again.

637
00:36:55.480 --> 00:36:59.400
Okay, Well, you know what happens is when can I

638
00:36:59.559 --> 00:37:03.159
go through this too? Okay? I meet women as pipe man,

639
00:37:04.239 --> 00:37:08.639
and they when I introduce them to Dean, they want

640
00:37:08.719 --> 00:37:13.920
pipe man. It's really really frustrating. Okay, sorry, but here's

641
00:37:13.960 --> 00:37:15.199
what I was going to say. Did I tell you

642
00:37:15.320 --> 00:37:17.679
the story about my best friend, one of my best

643
00:37:17.719 --> 00:37:19.719
friends from high school, she was going through divorce and

644
00:37:19.760 --> 00:37:21.280
they went to a therapist. Did I tell you that

645
00:37:21.400 --> 00:37:23.559
story or we talked about that last time? You're wrong?

646
00:37:24.039 --> 00:37:27.079
So there's a perfect example of like like we need

647
00:37:27.199 --> 00:37:30.920
to have That's why communication is so important. Let's find

648
00:37:31.000 --> 00:37:34.679
out what how somebody communicates. Everybody communicates different. If you're

649
00:37:34.719 --> 00:37:37.800
with somebody, find out how they communicate, so you know

650
00:37:37.920 --> 00:37:40.719
how to communicate with them and vice versa. And I

651
00:37:40.840 --> 00:37:43.920
think that will avoid a lot of problems. And speaking

652
00:37:44.000 --> 00:37:45.480
of go ahead, sorry, I.

653
00:37:45.519 --> 00:37:47.519
Was going to see a lot of people don't understand

654
00:37:47.719 --> 00:37:52.000
what communication means. It means taking a moment to hear,

655
00:37:52.519 --> 00:37:57.719
you know, listen, process and have conversations. Not so many

656
00:37:57.880 --> 00:38:01.159
people are not heard or felt like they're not being heard.

657
00:38:01.800 --> 00:38:04.679
So what they're doing is they're taking that frustration and

658
00:38:04.760 --> 00:38:08.039
they're they're automatically assuming the next person's not going to

659
00:38:08.079 --> 00:38:08.480
hear them.

660
00:38:08.920 --> 00:38:12.920
It's also understanding their language and how to translate. The

661
00:38:12.960 --> 00:38:14.960
way I look at is like it's no different than

662
00:38:15.000 --> 00:38:18.039
if you're you don't know Spanish and you're listening to

663
00:38:18.079 --> 00:38:21.840
people talking Spanish. It doesn't matter what they're saying because

664
00:38:21.920 --> 00:38:24.840
you have no clue what they're talking about, no matter what,

665
00:38:25.280 --> 00:38:28.320
no matter how intently you listen to them and you know,

666
00:38:28.960 --> 00:38:33.039
but if you understood their language and what they were speaking,

667
00:38:33.159 --> 00:38:34.760
then you would And I think that's the key to

668
00:38:34.840 --> 00:38:38.719
understanding the other person's language. And I think that's one

669
00:38:38.719 --> 00:38:45.400
of the big problems with online dating, right, Oh my guy,

670
00:38:45.559 --> 00:38:47.599
we need to talk about this for a bit, because

671
00:38:47.719 --> 00:38:51.519
I've had experiences recently that I'm just like, oh my god.

672
00:38:51.719 --> 00:38:55.599
I've been doing this online dating crap since two thousand

673
00:38:55.599 --> 00:38:59.480
and four. It was great in the beginning, okay, and.

674
00:38:59.679 --> 00:39:00.920
Then and what's it though?

675
00:39:01.800 --> 00:39:06.119
Well it was though because like when I first started

676
00:39:06.239 --> 00:39:09.519
doing it, people did speak the right way. I did

677
00:39:09.639 --> 00:39:12.280
go out on normal dates. A lot of bullshit that

678
00:39:12.360 --> 00:39:15.880
I experienced. Now I didn't experience that, or you could

679
00:39:16.039 --> 00:39:20.880
see it very easily, Like you know, you have to

680
00:39:21.039 --> 00:39:24.440
know what people's motives are, what there is or it's

681
00:39:24.559 --> 00:39:28.039
like so much to comprehend on this online dating crap

682
00:39:28.440 --> 00:39:33.119
because like nine percent of people you talk with on

683
00:39:33.280 --> 00:39:37.239
their even if you talk at length for weeks, you

684
00:39:37.320 --> 00:39:39.639
will never meet in real life because nobody wants to

685
00:39:39.719 --> 00:39:40.559
go out in the world.

686
00:39:41.880 --> 00:39:45.159
Yeah, you know, we're really busy these days. Also, it's

687
00:39:45.239 --> 00:39:49.320
extremely expensive to live in this fucking country. So people

688
00:39:49.360 --> 00:39:51.920
are working two three four jobs or raising kids on

689
00:39:52.000 --> 00:39:55.639
their own. You know, they're they're just trying to get

690
00:39:55.760 --> 00:39:59.039
through this. There's a lot of drama and trauma happening

691
00:39:59.119 --> 00:40:01.480
in our country, there's a lot of things. Also, we

692
00:40:01.559 --> 00:40:04.360
got to remember there's four of us right now, and

693
00:40:04.639 --> 00:40:07.440
if we all looked at one thing, each one of

694
00:40:07.519 --> 00:40:11.000
us could see various shades of colors, different words, we

695
00:40:11.079 --> 00:40:15.039
would hear different feelings. It would evoke because we all come.

696
00:40:15.039 --> 00:40:17.679
From fifty cultures.

697
00:40:17.960 --> 00:40:21.920
Right, because we all come from different backgrounds and different

698
00:40:22.000 --> 00:40:26.239
experiences and different thought patterns in different communication, you know ways.

699
00:40:26.440 --> 00:40:29.360
And so when we do start to meet people who

700
00:40:30.800 --> 00:40:33.159
you know, we don't know yet, and there's there's so

701
00:40:33.360 --> 00:40:38.400
many factors to think in that you're never going to

702
00:40:38.480 --> 00:40:41.280
get two people are going to think alike exactly. And

703
00:40:41.639 --> 00:40:44.000
when you do start to get a little bit of that,

704
00:40:44.199 --> 00:40:46.920
you have to learn to think, oh my gosh, Okay,

705
00:40:47.079 --> 00:40:50.280
do I want happiness, joy and love in my life?

706
00:40:51.119 --> 00:40:53.039
Do I want to continue to bitch a moan and

707
00:40:53.440 --> 00:40:56.159
keep looking and looking and looking and looking how to

708
00:40:56.199 --> 00:40:57.280
do the work at some point?

709
00:40:57.599 --> 00:40:59.679
Yeah? And with the online day, I'm talking about so

710
00:40:59.679 --> 00:41:01.760
many people, that's just what I had a woman just

711
00:41:02.320 --> 00:41:06.559
literally yesterday that said, let's get to know each other

712
00:41:06.719 --> 00:41:09.000
for the next few months and then we'll meet. Because

713
00:41:09.039 --> 00:41:12.480
I say, and it's right, I hate that. Yeah, no, no,

714
00:41:12.960 --> 00:41:15.119
And I did. I'm like, no, I'm not wasting my

715
00:41:15.320 --> 00:41:19.000
time for months without meeting somebody that's not a relationship.

716
00:41:19.320 --> 00:41:21.599
But I have to interrupt this for a second for

717
00:41:21.719 --> 00:41:26.639
two reasons. One is because I want you, Christine, to

718
00:41:26.760 --> 00:41:30.920
tell everybody who you are, how they contact you, how

719
00:41:31.000 --> 00:41:34.880
they connect you on socials, and how they watch and

720
00:41:35.039 --> 00:41:38.760
listen to your show, Fifty Shades of Bullshit. And then

721
00:41:39.000 --> 00:41:42.679
I'm going to run a TikTok that you're going to

722
00:41:42.800 --> 00:41:45.960
absolutely love that we're all going to comment on to

723
00:41:46.360 --> 00:41:49.679
see if this is a good thing or a bad thing.

724
00:41:50.280 --> 00:41:52.119
Go Christine, Well, I'm a.

725
00:41:52.159 --> 00:41:55.639
Host on fifty Shades of Bullshit. My co host is Jada,

726
00:41:55.760 --> 00:42:01.079
who is a matchmaker and a dating coach, and we

727
00:42:01.559 --> 00:42:04.599
talk about modern dating, finding love, and finding yourself. You

728
00:42:04.679 --> 00:42:08.880
can find us live every Thursday at four pm Pacific

729
00:42:08.960 --> 00:42:13.599
time through K four HD Radio, Facebook and wherever else

730
00:42:13.679 --> 00:42:17.760
you listen. Each week, our little swamp nut there is

731
00:42:17.800 --> 00:42:21.119
always telling me new people are listening from somewhere. But

732
00:42:21.599 --> 00:42:26.079
we're also on every podcast network. Listen everywhere you listen

733
00:42:26.159 --> 00:42:30.960
to podcasts, and we're here to either motivate you, make

734
00:42:31.039 --> 00:42:32.880
you laugh or cringe. Who cares?

735
00:42:34.519 --> 00:42:36.679
I like the cringe part. And I just want to

736
00:42:36.800 --> 00:42:39.559
say that you guys got check and check her out,

737
00:42:39.559 --> 00:42:41.280
and check her show out. Her shows a lot better

738
00:42:41.360 --> 00:42:46.159
than mine. Number one, number two, she is, she does

739
00:42:46.280 --> 00:42:49.079
have all the knowledge. I'm fifty shades of bullshit. I

740
00:42:49.360 --> 00:42:58.199
just have shit. Okay, So I know on that note exactly. Anyhow,

741
00:42:58.559 --> 00:43:02.239
I'm gonna run. Nobody here, not even my pipe nuts,

742
00:43:02.360 --> 00:43:03.679
know what's about to happen next.

743
00:43:04.159 --> 00:43:04.360
I do.

744
00:43:05.079 --> 00:43:10.559
But yeah, but un peaked today and I am going

745
00:43:10.599 --> 00:43:13.159
to play a video right now, and I want to

746
00:43:13.239 --> 00:43:15.320
have everybody's vote on it ready.

747
00:43:16.119 --> 00:43:19.320
Couples can now make love inside Disney World. Disney has

748
00:43:19.480 --> 00:43:22.280
just added love nests to the Magic Kingdom. For only

749
00:43:22.320 --> 00:43:24.360
two hundred dollars an hour, you can rent out one

750
00:43:24.360 --> 00:43:27.119
of these exclusive private rooms where couples can make love

751
00:43:27.199 --> 00:43:29.800
with a view of Cinderella Castle. There is a maximum

752
00:43:29.880 --> 00:43:32.320
limit of six people per nest. However, if you want

753
00:43:32.320 --> 00:43:34.079
to have more than six people with you, you must

754
00:43:34.119 --> 00:43:36.679
pay an extra fifty dollars per person in order to

755
00:43:36.760 --> 00:43:39.000
maintain your privacy. There is a double sided mirror which

756
00:43:39.039 --> 00:43:41.000
allows you to see Cinderella Castle and the rest of

757
00:43:41.039 --> 00:43:43.880
the Magic Kingdom, but doesn't allow anyone else to see inside.

758
00:43:44.239 --> 00:43:46.159
This is important for the people in the room making

759
00:43:46.239 --> 00:43:48.440
love as well as the people walking around Disney World,

760
00:43:48.559 --> 00:43:51.679
especially since there are so many kids. Naturally, Disney chose

761
00:43:51.760 --> 00:43:54.280
Valentine's date to launch these brand new love nests.

762
00:43:54.559 --> 00:43:56.679
However, not everyone is in love with this idea.

763
00:43:56.800 --> 00:43:58.840
In fact, many parents think that it's gross that Disney

764
00:43:58.880 --> 00:44:00.000
would allow these rooms inside.

765
00:44:00.840 --> 00:44:03.119
This, of course, is because it's a park for families.

766
00:44:03.400 --> 00:44:05.800
Meanwhile, proponents of this say that it's about time Disney

767
00:44:05.840 --> 00:44:08.679
allows people to make love inside their theme parks Disney

768
00:44:08.719 --> 00:44:10.239
Adults field before Disney was.

769
00:44:10.280 --> 00:44:11.880
Violating their First Amendment rights.

770
00:44:12.199 --> 00:44:14.000
For more on these love nests, click the link in

771
00:44:14.039 --> 00:44:16.039
our bio or vision mousetrap News dot com.

772
00:44:18.440 --> 00:44:22.880
That's real. Okay, that's not bullshit. Okay, So first of all,

773
00:44:23.039 --> 00:44:25.400
I want to get I'm gonna answer as both Dean

774
00:44:25.599 --> 00:44:30.360
and pipe Man two separate answers. Thanks, Okay, Okay, Dean,

775
00:44:31.480 --> 00:44:35.440
when I first saw them, like fuck not not Disney.

776
00:44:35.559 --> 00:44:39.480
I mean, like, what this is like the hourly motels

777
00:44:39.960 --> 00:44:43.320
on on the On in West New York, on the

778
00:44:43.440 --> 00:44:47.599
Jersey side of the Hudson where you get or right

779
00:44:47.639 --> 00:44:50.480
down the street from me on Broadway, that the hourly

780
00:44:50.639 --> 00:44:54.400
hotels where you get your prostitutes. I don't know. I

781
00:44:54.519 --> 00:45:00.400
don't think an hourly place in Disney, as Dean is

782
00:45:00.519 --> 00:45:03.000
the thing to do. And also I read more into

783
00:45:03.079 --> 00:45:05.320
it and basically you're supposed to go there and have

784
00:45:05.519 --> 00:45:07.960
your sex while your kids are roaming in the park.

785
00:45:08.480 --> 00:45:11.079
So not good with that either. Now. Pipe Man, on

786
00:45:11.199 --> 00:45:13.239
the other hand, says, fuck yeah.

787
00:45:13.920 --> 00:45:15.480
I love fucking.

788
00:45:15.280 --> 00:45:18.360
Disney World, okay, and now I love it even more.

789
00:45:18.519 --> 00:45:20.679
I was with my daughter in law and two of

790
00:45:20.760 --> 00:45:25.239
my grandkids yesterday at we had a cool thing the

791
00:45:25.360 --> 00:45:31.440
Lake Worst Street Painting Festival here and my son and

792
00:45:31.639 --> 00:45:34.599
daughter in law they got married at Disney, and so

793
00:45:34.679 --> 00:45:37.079
I'm talking about him, like, you know, I don't really

794
00:45:37.199 --> 00:45:39.559
like the idea, but it probably would have be a

795
00:45:39.599 --> 00:45:41.480
good idea for you and Derek because you could have

796
00:45:41.480 --> 00:45:46.039
had your honeymoon right there at Disney along with the wedding.

797
00:45:46.519 --> 00:45:49.679
But I don't know, I don't think. I just don't

798
00:45:49.800 --> 00:45:54.199
think that's a magical place for sex. Okay, just me

799
00:45:55.159 --> 00:45:58.880
just saying. Even the pipe Man probably would have a

800
00:45:58.960 --> 00:46:02.199
prom having sex and the world, but for the same

801
00:46:02.320 --> 00:46:06.480
amount of money you could get the Pipeman group on one.

802
00:46:06.840 --> 00:46:10.119
Can you roll that commercial for us? And then the

803
00:46:10.280 --> 00:46:12.599
three of you can answer and you get we can

804
00:46:12.639 --> 00:46:16.079
talk about the Pipemin group on two as well. Roll

805
00:46:16.159 --> 00:46:16.480
it one.

806
00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:22.400
Are you tired of the same old bed and breakfast?

807
00:46:23.119 --> 00:46:27.920
Come visit the Pipecave where you can service the Pipeman

808
00:46:28.639 --> 00:46:34.920
oh nine long and then serve the Pipeman breakfast and

809
00:46:35.280 --> 00:46:36.840
then get the hell out.

810
00:46:37.599 --> 00:46:42.199
That's the Pipeman group on The group on special is

811
00:46:42.480 --> 00:46:46.280
normally one nine nine, but today it's on sale for

812
00:46:46.559 --> 00:46:51.039
ninety nine dollars. Just call into the show right now

813
00:46:51.840 --> 00:46:57.159
five sixty one sixty three nine four two nine, and

814
00:46:57.320 --> 00:46:59.960
you too can have the Pipemin.

815
00:47:01.000 --> 00:47:02.039
I had to goop on.

816
00:47:03.719 --> 00:47:03.760
You.

817
00:47:04.000 --> 00:47:04.719
Should you?

818
00:47:09.599 --> 00:47:13.079
Christine is losing her ship right now? Okay, but you

819
00:47:13.159 --> 00:47:18.119
know what I'm thinking? Even more, hold that fought rebel.

820
00:47:18.320 --> 00:47:21.159
Tell her. Tell her about the women that call into

821
00:47:21.239 --> 00:47:23.760
the show. Rebel tell her why.

822
00:47:23.639 --> 00:47:30.199
Should I Everybody who's seen I didn't imagine women call into.

823
00:47:29.840 --> 00:47:34.519
The show to buy this fake group on me. That's

824
00:47:34.639 --> 00:47:36.079
fifty shades of bullshit.

825
00:47:36.400 --> 00:47:38.960
I had to tell you the whole time, and that

826
00:47:39.159 --> 00:47:42.159
was playing. I kept thinking, how can I create my

827
00:47:42.400 --> 00:47:45.119
own like this? Because you know how many wacky noodles

828
00:47:45.199 --> 00:47:49.480
following me on my show, who sexually harassed me for

829
00:47:49.639 --> 00:47:50.039
my show.

830
00:47:50.920 --> 00:47:54.239
People shie the gate for me to get home from

831
00:47:54.320 --> 00:47:55.000
the studio.

832
00:47:55.639 --> 00:47:56.880
I want this in my life.

833
00:47:58.280 --> 00:48:04.199
My daughter came to my condo after she moved out.

834
00:48:04.960 --> 00:48:07.559
She's like, so, Dad, how many women do you have

835
00:48:07.679 --> 00:48:11.199
come here? Because because of the it's the view and everything.

836
00:48:11.559 --> 00:48:14.760
And I'm like none, because I don't want any knowing

837
00:48:14.920 --> 00:48:19.119
where I live. Because literally I have come home after

838
00:48:19.239 --> 00:48:23.079
my show left the studio, I shit you not, and

839
00:48:23.280 --> 00:48:28.280
somebody was waiting at the gate of the gated place

840
00:48:29.320 --> 00:48:30.519
and I just kept driving.

841
00:48:30.840 --> 00:48:32.400
I gotta have it.

842
00:48:33.039 --> 00:48:37.159
I can help you have this in your life. We

843
00:48:37.239 --> 00:48:41.960
got we got very I know right well. There is

844
00:48:42.400 --> 00:48:45.400
by the way, I just want to say, on that note,

845
00:48:45.719 --> 00:48:49.360
can you put up the QR code for the you know,

846
00:48:49.559 --> 00:48:54.440
the pipemin o f please want. I don't think Christine

847
00:48:54.480 --> 00:48:59.320
knows about this. There is a pipe man holy fans. Okay,

848
00:49:00.159 --> 00:49:02.880
you hit that tor code people and you could be

849
00:49:03.000 --> 00:49:05.440
on the Pipeman only fans. We just restructured it. I

850
00:49:05.599 --> 00:49:09.800
deleted all of twenty twenty fours content and we're playing

851
00:49:09.920 --> 00:49:13.320
all new content up now. So now is the time

852
00:49:13.360 --> 00:49:16.440
to subscribe to Pipeman only fans. Okay, you can take

853
00:49:16.480 --> 00:49:20.159
that away once. Okay, So now, okay, we have very

854
00:49:20.280 --> 00:49:22.679
little time life. And when I say very low, thirty

855
00:49:22.800 --> 00:49:26.760
seconds in real time and probably like two minutes in

856
00:49:26.880 --> 00:49:31.079
pipe man time. Okay, I want to hear you the

857
00:49:31.199 --> 00:49:31.840
freaking me.

858
00:49:32.719 --> 00:49:37.559
At first thought, oh hell yeah, fetish you know Disneyland,

859
00:49:37.719 --> 00:49:40.119
why the fuck not? And then the second they said

860
00:49:41.320 --> 00:49:44.440
one sided mirrors and there were children on the other side,

861
00:49:44.880 --> 00:49:46.800
I went on, well, no, that's some.

862
00:49:47.400 --> 00:49:49.639
So you could watch your children while they're roaming around

863
00:49:49.719 --> 00:49:53.840
the park with no supervision. No, yeah, exactly, I was

864
00:49:54.599 --> 00:49:57.440
way window. Are you kidding me? And Disney you can

865
00:49:57.519 --> 00:50:02.000
be guaranteeing as filming all this shit. Okay, heck god, okay,

866
00:50:02.280 --> 00:50:05.400
but okay, reb swamp not real quick, because we know

867
00:50:05.519 --> 00:50:08.079
you're a big Disney fan. What's your opinion.

868
00:50:08.679 --> 00:50:10.119
No, I wouldn't pay.

869
00:50:10.000 --> 00:50:12.280
Two hundred dollars, not even if you can have six

870
00:50:12.360 --> 00:50:15.239
people in there at the same time behind them. No,

871
00:50:15.639 --> 00:50:17.519
that's what hotels are foreign. You go stay at the

872
00:50:18.360 --> 00:50:21.320
cheaper hotels thirty five dollars a night on Disney property.

873
00:50:21.639 --> 00:50:24.280
I ain't paying two hundred dollars for an hour. Who

874
00:50:24.360 --> 00:50:26.440
can get anything done, especially if.

875
00:50:27.639 --> 00:50:31.480
Plus you got paid take more than an hour? Yeah, pleasure. Yeah,

876
00:50:31.519 --> 00:50:35.480
that's why you all one thousand dollars for the for

877
00:50:35.679 --> 00:50:38.840
the escort too, in addition to the place.

878
00:50:39.079 --> 00:50:43.639
Okay, now, okay, so here's my my thing. Right they

879
00:50:43.760 --> 00:50:47.719
said you can make love with a clear view of Cinderella.

880
00:50:47.880 --> 00:50:51.440
I'm okay, I'm okay with that. I think that's what they.

881
00:50:51.400 --> 00:50:53.199
Said, right, make love to Cinderella.

882
00:50:53.320 --> 00:50:56.000
But okay, now are they providing the people that you're

883
00:50:56.000 --> 00:50:59.199
going to be making love to or is there some

884
00:50:59.320 --> 00:51:01.239
type of a many that seems to do that, or.

885
00:51:01.760 --> 00:51:04.400
It's a B y O B bring your own bitch.

886
00:51:06.119 --> 00:51:10.199
Perfect opportunity for people to see somebody in the in

887
00:51:10.400 --> 00:51:13.079
the park and go, hey, honey, I gotta go to

888
00:51:13.159 --> 00:51:14.960
the bathroom. I'll be right back, or I'm gonna go

889
00:51:15.000 --> 00:51:18.239
get cheiros and then they meet some crazy person that

890
00:51:18.360 --> 00:51:19.599
they just met in line.

891
00:51:20.039 --> 00:51:22.000
Well, now I know what to do because I like

892
00:51:22.079 --> 00:51:24.360
to go to Disney. So now when I now, I

893
00:51:24.440 --> 00:51:26.719
don't feel bad going to Disney by myself, I'll just

894
00:51:26.800 --> 00:51:29.880
pick up on another single one say hey, if you

895
00:51:30.199 --> 00:51:33.800
know about this, let me here's a question.

896
00:51:34.320 --> 00:51:36.559
Get in are you gonna pay more money, are you.

897
00:51:36.599 --> 00:51:45.039
Cur Here's a question. Here's a question. There's always a

898
00:51:45.119 --> 00:51:47.639
line for the rides. How long is the line going

899
00:51:47.719 --> 00:51:50.079
to be for these rooms for this ride?

900
00:51:50.119 --> 00:51:53.800
Well, my question is My question is is if you

901
00:51:53.880 --> 00:51:57.000
could pay extra, if you can pay extra for them

902
00:51:57.079 --> 00:51:59.840
to dress up as any of the Disney characters, they

903
00:52:00.000 --> 00:52:00.840
provide the uniform.

904
00:52:00.920 --> 00:52:03.960
Yeah, I think it's just mark on the door for Rai.

905
00:52:04.079 --> 00:52:06.159
He says. If you're you gotta be this told to

906
00:52:06.280 --> 00:52:07.360
write this right.

907
00:52:08.159 --> 00:52:11.079
No doubt, that would be great. I love that. So

908
00:52:12.400 --> 00:52:14.639
before we go to that, we're gonna she doesn't even

909
00:52:14.719 --> 00:52:17.000
know this yet, but we're gonna have Christine on again.

910
00:52:17.480 --> 00:52:20.880
But we're not gonna talk about the same things. We're

911
00:52:20.920 --> 00:52:26.480
gonna talk about her psychic energy because psychic entangy and

912
00:52:26.840 --> 00:52:29.760
we love talking about spiritual and psychic stuff on this

913
00:52:29.880 --> 00:52:33.719
show on our show. And we'll even have it where

914
00:52:34.199 --> 00:52:38.159
like we'll have some questions for Christine and she's gonna

915
00:52:39.000 --> 00:52:40.719
in fact, you know what I'll do. I've done with

916
00:52:40.920 --> 00:52:44.360
every psychic we've ever had on the show. I Am

917
00:52:44.480 --> 00:52:46.960
going to be vulnerable and I will let Christine give

918
00:52:47.000 --> 00:52:52.119
me a tarot reading on the show and a real one, like,

919
00:52:52.559 --> 00:52:55.000
I'll do it just like I do anybody else, because like,

920
00:52:55.280 --> 00:52:58.159
if I go to people, I don't tell them anything

921
00:52:58.280 --> 00:52:59.719
like I used to when I was married. It was

922
00:52:59.760 --> 00:53:02.079
the only time I ever took my wedding ring off

923
00:53:02.199 --> 00:53:04.079
is if I went to a psychic, because I didn't

924
00:53:04.119 --> 00:53:07.039
want them to say anything based on that, because I

925
00:53:07.239 --> 00:53:10.320
loved when they would say, oh, you're due to get

926
00:53:10.440 --> 00:53:15.119
married in June. Oh really, I didn't know that. But yes,

927
00:53:15.360 --> 00:53:17.280
we're going to have her back on for that. Maybe

928
00:53:17.320 --> 00:53:19.039
it'll be next week. I don't know. I haven't even

929
00:53:19.079 --> 00:53:21.360
talked to her about it yet, but we'll see, and

930
00:53:21.599 --> 00:53:23.840
we'll see how her schedule is a week. Got to

931
00:53:23.920 --> 00:53:27.880
go now, because once again I'm late, Christine on your show,

932
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you're never allowed to end late like I am. Okay,

933
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you all time, I know, and let me just tell you,

934
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like see why she's shouln because she gets in trouble

935
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for that stuff she does.

936
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I know, I need to send you emails that said,

937
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please forgive the swamp nut because it's mine.

938
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Yeah, okay, Meanwhile, end on time because it affects other

939
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people's shows. I just happen to have nobody being affected

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right now. But I had to make sure that we

941
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extended it for you, Christine, because as you are, I

942
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was lean of the universe in fifty shades of bullshit.

943
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And by the way, I just got an email before

944
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the show W four CY Radio, which we're broadcasting on

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right now.

946
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One.

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An award and seeing as he's frozen awa here.

948
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It is Media and Marketing Award for twenty twenty four

949
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W four CY Radio. So keep tuning in even with

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all this debauchery. Okay, we'll be here tomorrow for Travel

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Tuesday on the Adventures pipe Man, same pipe channel, same

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pipe time, one pm Eastern Time, W four CY Radio,

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W four cy dot Com. Wednesday is what the Fuck Wednesday,

954
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which in twenty twenty five, there's a lot to talk

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about on that subject, okay, because every second of every

956
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day the pipe Man is saying what the fuck? And

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I never really said that before, but now I I do.

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So thanks everybody for listening. Everybody, you can't listen to

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my show ever again if you don't check out and

960
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connect on socials with Christine and watch her show. Otherwise

961
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I will ban you, and I can tell one to

962
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ban you from the show. Okay, So don't play with me,

963
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thanks for listening Roll it one.

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Thank you for listening to the Adventures of Papement. I'm

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w for Cui Radio.